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How can I tell if a friendship is unhealthy?
By looking at your commitment to Christ.
2 Corinthians 6:14-18
Having just talked about the "ministry of reconciliation" we have as Christ's ambassadors (5:11-6:10), Paul now sets certain limits on your relationship with unbelievers. Paul doesn't name specific issues such as marriage; the Bible addresses that concern elsewhere. He does say that, as a general rule, you must decide whether certain alliances and experiences with unbelievers will weaken your commitment to Christ.
In Corinth, idol worship was a fundamental part of life. Since Christ lived in the Corinthian believers, they had to make a complete break with their culture. Paul's language is strong because the stakes are high (5:15). Do certain friendships, relatives, or jobs cause you to dishonor God or compromise your commitment to him? Prayerfully consider who and what you're involved in. Ask advice from wise, believing friends for perspective and support. God promises to bless you for honoring him above all others. That blessing comes in this life—and the next. (See also Psalm 1; Proverbs 4:14, 15; Proverbs 22:24, 25.)
Good Words to Remember:
Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And, what communion has light with darkness? … You are the temple of the living God. 2 Corinthians 6:14, 16
Today's Challenge:
How do your friends affect you?
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