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All human beings face many temptations to become self-centered—whether they are married, single, or single again. In particular, a single may worry that if she doesn't take care of herself, no one else will. Ambition is good—at least up to a point—because it keeps her from having to depend on others.

But ambition can also become self-centered. And self-centeredness can become dangerous. In the mysterious story of Genesis 11, a group of ambitious people decided to build "a tower whose top is in the heavens" (11:4). Their motive? "Let us make a name for ourselves, lest we be scattered abroad over the face of the whole earth" (11:4). For reasons not entirely understood by Bible scholars, God smashed their plans. They became famous all right. A famous failure.

It's not wrong for a woman to be ambitious. But a wise woman will recognize the dangers of ambition and look carefully at her motives. Are they selfish? Are they likely to hurt someone? Or are they guided by what she knows of God's will and character?

A discerning woman evaluates first; then decides whether she should pull back or charge ahead. (See also Mark 8:34-38; Hebrews 4:12,13.)

Good Words to Remember:
They said, "Come, let us build ourselves a city, and a tower whose top is in the heavens; let us make a name for ourselves. —Genesis 11:4

Today's Challenge:
Why do you want to succeed—for selfish reasons or for godly ones?

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