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Self-worth is based in the fact that God created us. We demonstrate self-worth when we honor God in daily living, and one of these areas is work. Far from being a burden, work demonstrates that every believer has a critical role in the kingdom of God. So give your child this privilege throughout life by assigning age-appropriate tasks.

As you assign tasks, insure success by insisting that your child follow through. Your toddler will find it great fun to take his laundry to the laundry basket. But when involved with her toys, she won't want to stop. When you hold his toys until he finishes, you give him success. You also demonstrate self-discipline-a skill that will enable him to accomplish great things for God. Later you'll withhold computer games until he finishes homework, or keep the car keys until the lawn is mowed. As children get more independent, create schedules of household responsibilities, such as laundry, cleaning, yardwork, cooking, and cleanup. Many parents excuse lack of follow-through with "my kids just won't do it," or "they won't do it as well as I could." But these parents may themselves be taking the lazy path described in 2 Thessalonians 3:6-13.

When you teach a child to work, you teach a child to become a responsible adult, able to work together with his family and world with competence and confidence. (See also 1 Samuel 17:24-54; Psalm 139; Luke 15:11-32; Ephesians 1:3-14.)

Good Words to Remember:
[We did not] eat anyone's bread free of charge, but worked with labor and toil night and day, that we might not be a burden to any of you … But as for you, brethren, do not grow weary in doing good. 2 Thessalonians 3:8, 13

Today's Challenge:
How do you encourage your children to follow-through on their work?

Bible Studies on Parenting and Family