Invite help from people around you, and give your help to them.
| posted 1/30/2009
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No doubt about it, single parenting is tough because you have no consistent partner with which to share things. There's no one else in your house to exclaim over the delightful antics of your child. There's no one to share decision making or to contribute energy to the tiring but fulfilling privilege of parenting. But you're far from alone. You have a huge extended family from which to draw acclamation, decision making, and energy. This is your church family. Invite their support while you give them yours.
Inviting support from your church family won't necessarily come instantly or easily, however. It's similar to marriage in that you need to make others aware of your needs. A friend at church won't know you want to brag about your child unless you do! Nor will she know you need encouragement during a trying week unless you let her know you're weary. Find one or two same-sex friends you can trust and risk telling them what you need. At the same time, be a friend who's willing to give what other parents need. You'll be energized through both giving and receiving. And in the process, you'll all show each other the love of Christ. You'll be the vehicle through whom Jesus meets needs. (4:19). (See also 1 Kings 17:8-16; Psalm 71:1-6; Psalm 138.)
Good Words to Remember:
I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at last your care for me has flourished again; though you surely did care, but you lacked opportunity. Philippians 4:10
Today's Challenge:
Be open to both giving and receiving.
Copyright 2001 by the author or Christianity Today International/Christian Bible Studies.
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