Back to ChristianBibleStudies.com A Ministry of Leadership
Subscribe to Leadership journal

 

Home  |  Store  |  Contact Us
Search


Bible Studies
Articles & Extras
Who Are We?
Customer Support
Find Out Here
Compare
Reprint Information
Guidelines for Writers

Browse
New
Free Samples
Top Sellers
Multi-Session Studies
Single-Session Studies
Spiritual Formation e-Booklets
Christianity Today Studies

Questions from Bible Readers
Friendship
Marriage
Parenting and Family
Personal Concerns
Spiritual Life
Single Life
Theology
Work

Featured Articles
Bible Study
Evangelism
Discipleship
Spiritual Growth
Small Groups
Teaching

Take the poll


HOLIDAYS & EVENTS
Related Channels
LeadershipJournal.net
Building Church Leaders
Bible & Reference
Today's Christian
Christianity Today
Christian History &
  Biography

ChristianHistoryStore.com
Small Groups
Online Courses

Home > Christian Bible Studies > Questions From Bible Readers > Personal Concerns

Sign up for our free newsletter:


Sometimes I'm jealous of others. How can I get out of this jealousy/envy trap?
Watch your mind—and your tongue.
James 3:1-12 | posted 1/30/2009



Since many of us struggle with self-image, it's no surprise we often feel pangs of envy when we meet someone thinner, smarter, prettier, or richer. Occasionally those pangs turn into full-blown resentments based in petty jealousies.

In some ways, jealousy seems like a victimless crime. When the Bible warns against jealousy, it usually reminds that jealousy is a sin because it affects your relationship with God. But jealousy damages much more than that. When you let jealousy into your head and heart, it's bound to leak out through your mouth.

This passage in James couldn't be clearer about the damage you do when you let envy lead to lies, gossip, and bitter words. It compares hateful words to a forest fire that consumes and destroys everything it touches (3:5, 6). It's pretty obvious that jealousy—depicted with such a powerful image—affects more lives than just your own.

As you struggle to rein in your feelings of envy, remember to watch not only what's filling up your heart, but what's flowing out of your mouth as well. (See also 1 Samuel 20; Psalm 73:1-20; Jonah 4.)


Good Words to Remember:

For we all stumble in many things. If anyone does not stumble in word, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle the whole body. James 3:2


Today's Challenge:

What things are you filling your heart and mind with?



















Free Newsletters
Sign up for one of our Newsletters:
Christian Bible Studies
(weekly)  
Small Groups
(weekly)  
Building Church Leaders
(weekly)  



ChristianityToday.com
Home CT Mag Church/Ministry Bible/Life Communities Entertainment Schools/Jobs Shopping Free! Help
Books & Culture
Christianity Today
ChristianityTodayLibrary.com
Christian History Back Issues
Church Law & Tax Report
Leadership Journal
Men of Integrity
Your Church
Church Finance Today
BuildingChurchLeaders.com
ChristianBibleStudies.com
Christian College Guide
Christian History
Christian Music Today
Christianity Today Movies
ChurchLawToday.com
Church Products & Services
ChurchSafety.com
ChurchSiteCreator.com
Kyria.com
PreachingToday.com
PreachingTodaySermons.com
ReducingtheRisk.com
Seminary/Grad School Guide
Christianity Today International
www.ChristianityToday.com
Copyright © 2009 Christianity Today International
Privacy Policy | Contact Us | Advertise with Us | Job Openings