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When you're facing an unplanned pregnancy, you may feel your entire life is up for grabs, that nothing will be the same again. (And, frankly, it won't, because no woman can forget what it's like to carry a child within her body, whether the pregnancy goes full-term or the child is aborted.) With the anxiety surrounding your uncertain future, you may begin to see your child as a hated "thing" you have to get rid of, so your life can get back to normal.

But God sees your child in a different light—as a blessing and not a curse. He calls children a "heritage," "a reward," and has harsh words for those who mistreat them. Although it may be hard right now, begin to think of your child as a blessing. Sure, the baby's birth may interrupt your schooling or career, but God holds you responsible to do the right thing: to give this child life. Then, as you consider your and your child's future, be aware that most boyfriends walk away upon discovering their girlfriends are parents. So if you choose to keep the child, you'll likely be a single parent—a tough road, but not impossible, with God's help. Or you can choose to give your child up for adoption. Many couples have been waiting for years to love and nurture a child. The choice is up to you. (See also Job 12: 7-10; Job 31:15; 1 Timothy 1:14-19.)

Good Words to Remember:
Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD. Psalm 127:3

Today's Challenge:
List the ways this child can bless your life (for instance, get you to think more carefully about your future, allow you the wonderful miracle of feeling a child grow in your body … ).

Bible Studies on Parenting and Family