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How can I reach out to people who differ from me in habits, faith, culture, or race?
Be respectful, listen, and share yourself.
John 4:4-26

Relating effectively to people you view as different from yourself doesn't always come naturally. The categories humans have created (based on gender, race, economic status, age, and personality) often obscure the things you share in common. Instead of being enriched by diversity, it might make you uneasy.

You can look at Jesus' conversation with the Samaritan woman as a prototype for your own interactions with those you perceive as being different from yourself. First, Jesus initiated the interaction rather than waiting for the Samaritan woman to speak with Him (4:8). He didn't allow the differences in gender, race, marital status, or spiritual condition to be deterrents. And He responded to her questions and comments with respect (4:9-26).

Rather than judging by her outward circumstances, Jesus looked into her heart (4:19-24). And He revealed important aspects of Himself so she also could get to know Him. When the disciples offered Him lunch, He affirmed her value by saying, in effect, that talking with His new friend was more important to Him than eating (4:34).

If you follow Christ's example in being open to a variety of individuals, you may be surprised by the unity you experience—and enriched by the diversity they bring. (See also Romans 3:21-31; 2 Corinthians 5:16-21; Galatians 3:26-29; Colossians 4:2-6.)

Good Words to Remember:
God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth. John 4:24

Today's Challenge:
Do you initiate interaction with those different from you? Why or why not?

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