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Moses had an important job. As leader of the Israelites, his word was law, and God spoke to him as a friend. But his sister and brother complained about his importance. God judged their jealousy; He brought them into His presence and punished Miriam with leprosy. Then Moses prayed for his sister, and God healed her.

This story offers four steps to deal with a spouse who feel jealous of your success. First, check your attitude. The Book of Numbers says that Moses was the most humble person in the world (12:3). That meant he didn't flaunt the importance of his job or let Aaron and Miriam know indirectly how indispensable he was. He kept his mouth shut and faithfully did his work. Examine yourself and make sure you aren't bragging about your job—either in words or in attitude!

Second, take the matter to God. When Miriam and Aaron complained about Moses, the matter was resolved in front of God Himself. If your spouse dislikes your work, make this a matter of private prayer.

Third, leave the resolution of his jealousy to God. Notice that Moses did nothing to correct his brother and sister! God is able to deal with jealous attitudes without your help. If your spouse is jealous, your correction won't make matters better. Allow God to deal with your spouse's heart problem in His own time.

Fourth, pray for your spouse! Moses' only action is this entire story was to pray for Miriam's restoration. In the same way, pray for your spouse's well-being. Ask God to give him/her satisfaction and success in his/her own work. (See also Luke 3:7-20, 1 Corinthians 12:1-11.)

Good Words To Remember:
He (the Lord) said … "My servant Moses … is faithful in all My house. I speak with him face to face, even plainly, and not in dark sayings; and he sees the form of the LORD. Why then were you not afraid to speak against My servant Moses? Numbers 12:6-8

Today's Challenge:
How will you handle your spouse's jealousy the next time it crops up?