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It's best to withdraw from an explosive situation until you have control of your anger. Everyone gets upset and angry, but problems come when you rush to speak out of anger. Once "harsh words" are spoken, they can't be recalled. But "a soft answer turns away wrath" (15:1; see also verse 18). With your anger under control, you can talk with your children about what's upsetting you. In that setting, it's okay to admit your anger. Focusing on inappropriate behavior rather than blaming your children helps them know exactly how they need to change. If you use kind words rather than harsh ones, they're more likely to want to change. And by focusing on behavior, you can reassure your children of your unconditional love for them as persons (See also Matthew 11:25-29; Titus 3:3-8.)

Good Words to Remember:
A wholesome tongue is a tree of life. Proverbs 15:4

Today's Challenge:
How do you handle anger in front of your children?

Bible Studies on Parenting and Family