5 Tips for New Dads Help for the first few months with baby by Jennifer Mangan
According to a recent study by the Families and Work Institute, today's dads are putting in 75 percent of the time moms spend on childcare and household chores, up from 30 percent in 1977. But for first-time fathers, parenting can feel overwhelming. Here are some ideas from Greg Bishop, founder of Boot Camp for New Dads, that will help dads get a good start:
Warm and Secure. Learn to swaddle or "burrito-wrap" your baby just like they do in the hospital nursery. It makes the baby feel warm and secure.
Burping Guru. Become your baby's burping expert by trying different techniques to see what works best. Also, babies love to suckle, and your clean finger can be the perfect pacifier. Try it with the soft side of your finger on the roof of your baby's mouth.
Tour de Child. Slowly bicycle your baby's legs to help him handle gas. Many babies and dads also find this a fun way to play together.
Don't Forget Mom. As tough as being a new parent is on fathers, it's even tougher on the mothers. Try to do things to make it easier for your wife. Constantly remind her how great she is doing and how much you love her. Arrange to take care of your baby alone for a few hours one day during the first month. When Mom asks how it went, reassure her that you handled everything just fine.
Be Involved. Don't let others (usually parents or in-laws) push you to the side and take over your baby's care during the first months. Stand your ground and be involved in everything from the feeding to changing and every detail that comes up.
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