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It is easy to forget how dire prospects seemed for Heather Mercer and Dayna Curry. Their families spent three and a half months last fall praying and watching as hopes grew dim for acquittal or a light sentence on charges of proselytizing in Afghanistan. Chances also seemed slim that the Taliban would not use them as human shields.

The sentence for proselytizing—the charge itself violated United Nations-sanctioned human rights—could have been as light as a 10-day jail term. But during the trial, the World Trade Center towers fell to terrorists, and Taliban leader Mullah Mohammed Omar's 10-year-old son reportedly was killed by U.S. air raids. Omar, who was said to have favored an "exemplary sentence" that could have included death by hanging, would have decided the aid workers' fate had they been convicted.

The spotlight on the Shelter Now International aid workers detained in Afghanistan also shed light on the exasperating ordeals of endangered workers' relatives.

At the time, Mercer's mother, Deborah L. Oddy, said she was praying day and night. In an e-mail to CT from Islamabad, Pakistan, on October 19, she said her 24-year-old daughter wrote in a letter that the aid workers needed a miracle of the "same magnitude as the parting of the Red Sea."

"As time passes, it is more difficult for me to remain optimistic," Oddy wrote.

Once U.S. bombing in Afghanistan began on October 7, she placed little hope in the Taliban legal process. "I go to bed each night praying that tonight will be the night the Taliban fall," she wrote on October 25. "Each morning I wake up, immediately turn on CNN, and I'm disappointed. One day I hope it will happen. I hope it will be one day soon."

Three weeks later, as they overran Kabul, Northern Alliance soldiers stumbled upon the aid workers. U.S. forces eventually ferried them to safety, and a few days later, Oddy expressed her delight on Larry King Live. But she had already voiced her rage at the German-based Shelter Now to CT.

"When this horrible ordeal reaches a conclusion, there will be questions I will ask of the visionaries who sent her there," she wrote on October 25. "I believe the decision was unconscionable and tantamount to assisted suicide."

Oddy is not the first parent to object to a grown child going into dangerous missionary work. Relatives of imperiled Christian relief workers commonly have found themselves in such an emotional riptide—upset with the very ones for whom they yearn.

Oddy's distress, as well as her daughter's, was magnified as the family already had suffered the death of another child. She felt her daughter had not recovered from the loss of her younger sister, who died after a back operation one year before.

"She is very saddened that the decision to go to Afghanistan has put her family in such a painful position," Oddy said in October, citing a letter she had just received from her daughter. "We also regret the decision which was made to send Heather to Afghanistan and her decision to go. Heather was ill prepared for such a hostile environment."

While his imprisoned daughter suffered asthma and digestive illnesses, and as bombs were shaking Kabul, Tilden Curry strove to live a "normal life" in Nashville. Dean of the business school at Tennessee State University, he advised the school's president that he might need to leave on a moment's notice.

His ex-wife, Nancy Cassell, held vigil in Islamabad, but the State Department advised Curry to stay home. The prayer and emotional support of family and friends at First Presbyterian Church of Nashville, accompanied by notes and prayers from around the country, helped him muster the strength to get through each day.

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February 4 2002, Vol. 46, No. 2