Good Question: The Marriage Mystery
Steve Tracy | posted 1/07/2002 12:00AM

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Sexual union expresses, reinforces, and reenacts the marital covenant itself. This helps to explain the beautiful Hebrew euphemism for marital sex—"to know." Adam, who had been given Eve as his life companion on the sixth day of Creation, could continue to express and reenact their union throughout their earthly days by "knowing" Eve sexually (Gen. 4:1). Even the apostle Paul, who championed singleness, said that sex is so essential to marriage that withholding it is "to defraud" or steal from one's spouse (1 Cor. 7:3-5).
Sex does not create marriage, but sex cannot be divorced from marriage. The gracious God who created marriage would have it no other way.
Steve Tracy is academic dean and associate professor of theology and ethics at Phoenix Seminary.
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