Subscribe to Christianity Today
Subscribe to Christianity Today
Donate to Christianity Today
November 26, 2009
Free Newsletters:
RSS Feeds | Audio | Twitter

Home > 2007 > August (Web-only)Christianity Today, August (Web-only), 2007  |   |  
SoulWork
When a Blessing Is a Curse
Sometimes the most loving prayers are not all that nice.




ADVERTISEMENT

Of course, the same Jesus who said bless your enemies seems to have cursed them (along with his friends). So what gives?

What gives is that our understanding of what it means to love and to bless has become severely constricted in our sentimental age. We think that blessings should always feel good and that love is mostly about being nice. Jesus, on the other hand, specifically says that blessings sometimes feel like abject poverty, like grief, like starving to death, like being persecuted. And he showed his love for us by enduring the excruciating pain and abandonment of crucifixion.

Love always seeks the other's good, to be sure, but seeking the other's good is a complicated thing. How many parents have wished and hoped that their drug addicted son would hit bottom, would come to the point of complete misery and hopelessness—so that he would see God was his only hope? If this is not an imprecatory prayer, I don't know what is.

The difference between the Rev. Drake's prayer and those of desperate parents or even an angry Jesus is this: The Rev. Drake appears to have no love for his enemies but merely wishes them cursed. But is there not a way to pray for consequences, for pain—for judgment! —that leads to redemption?

I do not mean to suggest that all the curses and imprecatory prayers of the Bible (like , which goes on and on with curses) are models for us. Love and redemption do not often seem to be the driving motive! As C.S. Lewis, among others, has noted, the vengeful Psalms are but honest expressions of anger. The only thing they model is the freedom we have to be utterly vulnerable with God. But as Jesus taught, we are called to transcend vengeance with love, and curses with blessings.

At the same time, we are a naïve and sentimental people if we equate love with mere social grace and think that niceness will successfully confront the massive and intransient evils of our day, individual and corporate. Redemption—personal, social, and cosmic—comes only through suffering. The paradox is that while we should not wish pain on anyone, it seems to be a perfectly loving and realistic act to pray for it.

Mark Galli is senior managing editor of Christianity Today. He explores this theme more fully in his Jesus Mean and Wild: The Unexpected Love of an Untamable God (Baker). You can comment below or on his blog.



Related Elsewhere:

Articles on Wiley Drake's request for imprecatory prayer include:

Buena Park pastor asks followers to pray for the death of his critics | His response comes after a call to the IRS about a political endorsement he issued on church letterhead (Los Angeles Times)
Audit may be part of IRS' investigation of church | A Wichita church being investigated by the Internal Revenue Service for a possible violation of its tax-exempt status could soon be audited (The Wichita Eagle, Kan.)
Wichita church under scrutiny from IRS | IRS investigating political activity, abortion battles (Associated Press)
Funding faith-based charities | The way has been paved for faith-based organizations offering social services to tap into government dollars. In Utah, however, it seems many groups either can't find the on-ramp, assume there's a roadblock or simply prefer to take different roads (The Salt Lake Tribune, Ut.)
share this pageshare this page



E-mail this pageWrite CTPrint this articlePost a comment





  


Subscribe to Christianity Today and get 3 free trial issues. No credit card required.

Please allow 4-6 weeks for delivery. Offer valid in U.S. only.

If you decide you want to keep Christianity Today coming, honor your invoice for just $19.95 and receive nine more issues, a full year in all. If not, simply write "cancel" across the invoice and return it. The three trial issues are yours to keep, regardless.


Click here for international orders2-for-1 Gifts!

[Reader Reviews]
Average User Rating: 

Displaying 1 - 3 of 23 comments.See all comments
Julie   Posted: August 30, 2007 3:47 PM
JCD seems to have a problem with reading comprehension. Not once did Galli praise Drake's actions; in fact, Galli called the preacher's motives into question ("The difference between the Rev. Drake's prayer and those of desperate parents or even an angry Jesus is this: The Rev. Drake appears to have no love for his enemies but merely wishes them cursed."). He also wrote, "I do not mean to suggest that all the curses and imprecatory prayers of the Bible... are models for us. Love and redemption do not often seem to be the driving motive! ... As Jesus taught, we are called to transcend vengeance with love, and curses with blessings." Saying that one is "in good company" is not necessarily a compliment; it simply means that he is not the only person who shares a particular point of view.

MLJ   Posted: August 29, 2007 8:53 PM
i give credit for the writing of this article, but none for the true thoughtfulness of it. seems a bit too reactionary - as if what every pastor says must be dignified. perhaps you (the author) just agree with Drake.. this is the first time hearing about this, so perhaps you also know the context in which he said what he said, but from what is presented of Drake's comments in this article (awfully short), your equation just does not add up. but don't worry. no imprecatory prayers upon you..

SDB   Posted: August 29, 2007 1:29 PM
Two comments on this article: 1. While it is obviously not socially correct to believe or ask for justice, the biblically supported fact is that God is the same yesterday, today, and forever. He loves justice - and perfectly balances that justice with mercy. 2. Christians not being taken seriously by society has little to do with anyone in the press praying boldly for justice. It has to do with the stench of complacency, moral relativism, and hedonistic lifestyles WITHIN THE CHURCH. But then the Church is made up of humans - and as Jesus said, "It's not the healthy that need a doctor..."

The allotted time for commenting has ended.

sponsors 








[Browse More Christianity Today]

Search






















Search by Name
Or use Advanced Search to search by program, region, cost, affiliation, enrollment, more!

Search by:





Books & Culture
Christianity Today
Church Law & Tax Report
Church Finance Today
Leadership Journal
Men of Integrity
Outcomes
Kyria.com
Your Church
ChristianityTodayLibrary.com
PreachingToday.com