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Seeing Both Sides
Reaching the Left from the Right tells conservative evangelicals how to build bridges.




Any serious social movement has its generals, foot soldiers, and media hounds. The healthiest movements, however, also have bridge-builders. Barbara Curtis, a mother of 12 and an author, writes that she spent 20 years on the cultural Left. She draws from those years to help conservative evangelicals understand their counterparts in the culture wars.

Curtis offers stirring examples of people on the Left who defy the stereotypes, such as heavily tattooed Goth parents who show tenderness toward their daughter during a screening of Toy Story II and a pair of lesbians in their 50s who adopt multiple children.

Curtis also offers many commonsense approaches to meeting would-be enemies first as fellow human beings. Rather than simply complaining about the blandness of a "winter holiday" choir concert at a school, for instance, Curtis takes up the matter with the school principal and then with the choir director.

She and her husband now make appointments with choir directors well before the holidays. "Once we've informed a teacher, we don't have to go back the next year," she writes. "Actually, the teacher is usually quite happy to find out that sacred music is legal, because as a music teacher he or she knows religious music is usually far superior to secular music."



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Reaching the Left from the Right is available from ChristianBook.com and other retailers.

Barbara Curtis has a blog with her advice on family and culture.





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Displaying 1–5 of 8 comments

Anna

March 08, 2007  12:35am

In this day and age, if a Christian gets to the point of having twelve children, I would say they want them. I am talking about once the child is conceived. Before it is conceived you can take any pill or put on any condom you want but once the child is conceived, especially at the point where it is coming out of its mother and some "doctor" who hasn't heard of the Hipocratic Oath, sticks something in its head and sucks out its brain, well, that's murder no matter what the "law" says. Man can be vicious to man and abortion proves it. Since so many people want to adopt, and most women live so long these days, I say nine months ain't much to keep yourself with living with the guilt of murder. Oh, I'm not Catholic just in case you're wondering. And, where the heck are all the fathers of these unborn anyway?. Where is their responsibility in this business of murder?. Why is it just women's responsibility to do and live with this quilt.

Dave

March 06, 2007  11:09am

you never got to the point of how we as "Religious Right" Evangelicals can agree with the left.

michael

March 03, 2007  8:29am

Rev B, your bias toward the left as "the more thinking" is typical, in my experience growing up among the largely left-wing, cultural elite. Why does your side (I assume that the "more thinking" is your side - maybe I'm wrong) get to have the monopoly on intellect? In the end, the attribute that most turned me away from the faithless, cynical, and ultimately miserable worldview of my parents was snobbery. We see it today on university campuses and in government and, in your case, in the church. The message we receive over and over is "Your opinions differ from ours, therefore you must not be as intelligent." I allow Mr. LeBlanc the term "enemy" as a journalistic tool. I believe he meant "opponent" and you and I both know that opposition has always existed within the church. It hasn't always been bad for us, either. Interesting that the more "thinking" reader of the article should be guilty of the more "wooden and inflexible" interpretation of the text.

H. D. Schmidt

March 02, 2007  2:59pm

However, it would be interesting to find out how many Christians would say Amen to the fact that they procreated 12 Children. Evidently they must have reservations with all the anti-pregnancy stuf on the market and even recomented by Christian counselors. Maybe Some Christians would even wish to stone me for raising this issue. I can only wonder how they manage etc. In my estimation they are more in tune with God plan as to procreation than the greatest majority of Christian families.

Anna

March 01, 2007  9:41pm

To Anomynous:I'm actually amazed that people think they are Christians when they approve of and do abortion, (the murder of a future adult), practice homosexuality which is about how you do sex not religion. Where in the Bible does Christ say it is okay to kill the unborn. Politicians say it is okay not Christ. Christ, a Jew, more than likely followed their rule on homosexuals, leave them alone but it was considered a sin to sow your seed wastefully (not produce a child). Evangelicals are defining Christians as Christ defines himself. No killing babies whether born or not, no wasting your seed, basically follow the ten commandments, forgive, go forth and sin no more. Love Christ not yourself. Do you even read the Bible? You say evangelicals are doing what you are actually doing with those you disagree with. You're not a Christian. Christ defines Christianity, not politicians, or secularists or humanists. Read the Bible. I'm glad someone is finally speaking up. I wish my Church would

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