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The Men of Boystown
A glimpse into the world of male prostitution.




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Still, the sometimes glamorous pretenses of hustling conceal a much darker reality. Many hustlers are boys who have run away from unstable home situations where there was physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, or where there were family conflicts over the sexuality of gay-identified youth. Research has shown a high frequency of hustlers who come from broken homes, homes with indifference or lack of affection, and hostile or abusive family members. One study in D.C. found that only 27 percent of young hustlers came from homes with both parents present; another national study found that only 18 percent had an intact family, and even when an apparently intact family existed, the relationships were broken. Most studies concur that fathers, more often than mothers, are either absent or ineffective.

It's not surprising, then, that poverty, homelessness, and mental illness characterize the lives of many hustlers. I remember meeting Kevin—he was so proud for finding an abandoned apartment to live in (instead of shelters and parks) with his transvestite hustling partner. We talked for at least an hour on a darkened residential side street in Boystown. Apparently he'd found a pretty nice building—vacant only because it was scheduled to be remodeled soon.

And then there was Brian. We first met on a Thursday night. He appeared feminine at first glance—tall and slender, with long hair. He explained that his mother was a prostitute and that he'd been raised by three women who were witches. He believed that he himself was a witch and simultaneously a born-again Christian. He had spent time in a psychiatric hospital and had attempted suicide at least twenty times (the scars on his wrists confirmed this), and yet quoted the Bible better than most of my Bible-quizzing youth group friends. Like many other men on the streets, he is in severe need of counseling and mental health services.

Along with these challenges, researchers and social workers are also concerned about drug use and disease in hustler culture. Drugs permeate life on the streets, and hustlers are no exception. According to Robert McNamara, a researcher in New York City and author of the book The Times Square Hustler, "Virtually every hustler uses some sort of drug, and many are poly-drug users." In Chicago, every hustler I met had to some degree battled substance abuse. Johnny talked quite a bit about the heroin recovery program he was struggling in. Hard drugs like cocaine and heroin are widely used among hustlers.

In addition to the risks associated with drug use, hustlers are also at a high risk for exposure to sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV—and most are strikingly unconcerned. In another study, Cudore Snell found that only 47 percent of his sample thought they "stood a chance of getting AIDS," though in reality nearly all of them were at high risk. McNamara also documented the prevalence of misconceptions about stds among hustlers, such as the belief that they can visually identify an infected client by whether he looks "clean" or "sick."

Furthermore, McNamara investigated coping mechanisms, including the disturbing reality that some hustlers, after learning of their infection, simply become apathetic, conceal it, and continue to hustle. Brian, for example, had AIDS yet didn't seem to fully grasp its meaning. Despite national campaigns during the 1980s to increase understanding of HIV/AIDS and to encourage precautionary measures, many hustlers remain uneducated in these areas.

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John   Posted: December 05, 2007 6:07 AM
While I give the article 5 stars for addressing an area that is often ignored, as I read the story the lesson was really none too different than the lessons of female prostitution. Sex is a powerful intimacy, and people who are driven to sell it are usually desperate people with many attendant social and psychological ills. Prostitution is usually a symptom of a greater problem (abuse, drug addiction) rather than the problem itself. We as Christians should take the lead in making this extremely predatory society more humane, more kind, more caring, across the board, from our kitchens to our churches to our workplaces to the corporate boardrooms. Then we will find problems like prostitution will greatly lessen. Otherwise all the preaching and outreach in the world is not going to stem the tide.

Dorene   Posted: December 03, 2007 7:24 PM
Thanks for a creating awareness of the plight of these men. There is indeed a great need for Ministry to those in need in such situations. We have to support Ministries like Emmaus and other ministries in whatever ways we are able to.

James Wartian   Posted: December 03, 2007 3:34 PM
Good article. I worked at a condo complex in the Oak Lawn area of Dallas. It was an eye opening experience as I saw the hustlers walking down the street right in front of my office and even coming to see tenants of the complex. It is sad that homosexuality is still an issue which cannot be freely discussed other than to blindly condemn it. While I fully agree it is sinful and harmful, the reality is it is just a symptom of far deeper spiritual thirst. The issue is not about 'orientation' but about truly finding life in God alone -- something most Christians in America struggle to do. We will "convert" far more if we offer the love of Christ rather than condemnation for an action that more often than not is driven by a much deeper need.

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