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February 11, 2012

Home > 2008 > AprilChristianity Today, April, 2008
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Dear Disillusioned Generation
The 'failed experiment' called the church still looks better than the alternatives.




If you've talked to 20-somethings lately, you've probably noticed we're disillusioned about almost everything—government, war, the economy, and most things having to do with The Man. We're especially disillusioned with church. Somewhere between the Crusades, the Inquisition, and fundamentalists bombing abortion clinics, we lost our appetite for institutionalized Christianity. A slew of recent books addresses this growing disenchantment.

An oft-disillusioned (and hopelessly idealistic) 20-something myself, I picked up Life After Church: God's Call to Disillusioned Christians (InterVarsity), and Dear Church: Letters from a Disillusioned Generation (Zondervan). I figured that I'd find writers who share my frustrations. But I was also hoping they would push me toward a deeper and richer relationship with the church—and in this, I was left unsatisfied.

In Life After Church, Brian Sanders writes specifically for "leavers"—people who are committed to Jesus Christ but often view church as a "failed experiment." They feel that following Jesus and staying in a local congregation have become mutually exclusive. Likewise, Sarah Cunningham in Dear Church writes for those who "question whether attending a local church has anything to do with a person's faith."

Both authors focus on local congregations as the primary source of disappointment. Sanders says leavers find Sunday morning services irrelevant—they're repetitive, they don't address issues that really matter to them, and they fail to provide meaningful outlets for service. Leavers often feel that they've outgrown what they perceive as simplistic, seeker-oriented messages; nor do they find churches conducive to deep community. Cunningham says 20-somethings are uncomfortable with overly cool, overly polished churches "whose onstage dress code seems to keep designer clothing stores in business." She also wrestles with the socioeconomic and racial homogeneity of local congregations.

Both authors identify a variety of complaints with the church. But naming a problem isn't the same thing as addressing it.

Sanders and Cunningham suggest drawing on a "clean canvas" what it means to do church. Sanders looks to Acts 9, which describes the apostle Paul's calling following his conversion, in order to propose an "ecclesial minimum" of worship, community, and mission. He writes, "As easily as we have formed churches around cathedrals and buildings with steeples and stained glass, we can form churches around pubs and laundromats, parks and coffee shops. … Simply inviting believers and nonbelievers into our homes for the purpose of worshiping and sharing Jesus transforms our homes into churches."

Obviously it is essential that we as Christians intentionally build relationships with nonbelievers in pubs and laundromats, because that is where they are. But that isn't church. Church is much more complex than "worshiping and sharing Jesus."

Cunningham cites various New Testament passages that deal with early Christian communities. She mentions Matthew 16 a few times—where Jesus appoints Peter to be the rock on which the church will be built—as the biblical grounds for her understanding of church. Ultimately, though, she shies away from any notion of the church as an institution (the closest she comes is saying that the church should be "a permanent fixture in society"). Jesus, she says, "did away with institutionalized religion and instead championed a real-life faith where he hung out with his followers in a way that was perhaps reminiscent of Eden."





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Displaying 1–5 of 46 comments

MA Woodward

April 27, 2008  10:38am

This conversation suffers from a false dilema. I have been blessed to be in a place where the Acts patern is being experienced now. It says they met a) in the Temple and b) house to house. We need the community that can only be experienced in small groups, but we also need the structure Jesus gave when He gave gifts to the Church: Apostles, Prophets, Evangelists, Pastors and Teachers. Those are ordained offices that build up the believers so they can do the work of ministry that will happen out of the small group relationships. Don't bail on the Church, its what Jesus loves. Resources for authentic Church are out there. Make it a priority to be healthy.

John

April 27, 2008  1:58am

1. Most evangelical churches are so noisy before & after a worship service. I wish people would enter & exit church quietly & reverently. Evangelicals need to cut the chit chat in church. 2. I don't need someone to greet me or befriend me to go to church. I go to meet God in His house, period. 3. Sitting through orchestra performances, solos, & choir hymns before a sermon is SO Boring. 4. Why can't evangelical services begin at noon or 1pm on a Sunday? The day of rest is not restful for so many overworked people. Why is 10am is so sacred? What I need: 1 hour of corporate meeting time total, once a week on Sunday = 12:00noon, Enter sanctuary & pray 12:05, Read scripture 12:10, Corporate prayer and/or song(s) 12:20, Collect offerings and tithes 12:30, Sermon 1:00pm, End in prayer 1:05---Exit quietly & reverently & keep sanctuary open for private prayer--minimum of 30 min. Corporate worship is not about you or me, it is about you AND me coming together to worship Him.

Steve Skeete

April 23, 2008  12:27pm

I sympathise with those who are disallusioned by the organised Church and would prefer to meet at a bar or a laundermat. My suggestion is, let them, then watch what happens a few months or years down the road. I guarantee two things will be observed. They will either be no longer together - still out there looking for a bar or cinema to meet in, or they will be back to doing some of the same things they disliked, albeit in some slightly different way or under some other name. Would I not like to hear a "message" every Sunday that will make a difference to my Monday through Friday? Sure! But do I also want to meet with like-minded brethren, sense the presence of God, and experience again the wonders of His goodness and His redemption plan? A message need not be work related to be life related. There are places in the world where people walk for hours to give praise and worship to an awesome God. Is that is not Church then I ask you, what is?

John von dem Beck

April 22, 2008  11:39pm

They usually are disillusioned because they had too many illusions, and being able to take their shoes off in church--or keep them on while standing on their seats or kneelers--or otherwise look/act like careless slobs are not even the worst of it. Disrespectful&anti-social attitudes/behaviours stem fr/culture which encourages hyper-individualism&self-centredness, so they expect everything to be convenient, comfortable, and in agreement with their own personal opinions. Training begins in the home, and, like the leash on a dog, it must be used to control&discipline. Then when they arrive in church they will be prepared for The Cross: self-sacrifice, altruism, the good of the community.

Jay

April 22, 2008  3:25pm

Very interesting. In my opinion we Americans are a bunch of babies; me included. We don't really know hardship. Those in India, China, and the Middle Eastern countries know persecution; we have no idea what that really feels like. If something does not cater to our flesh; we go elsewhere. The 20 somthing crowd has more choices than ever; like choosing a soda pop. In my childhood we had 5 choices of soda pop companies with about 2 choices per soda that took up 10% of today's pop grocery store shelves. You can equate this to the kids of today; their choices are overwhelming. Many of our youth think that they can have Jesus and fornicate, lie, cheat on their tests in college, etc., with no ramifications. What does the Word say? "Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world-the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life-is not of the Father but is of the world."

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