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The Five Steps of Getting Un-Lost
I Once Was Lost has wisdom for those trying to reach young skeptics.



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A few pages into Don Everts and Doug Schaupp's I Once Was Lost, 1 Peter 3:15 flashed through my mind. Surprisingly, it wasn't the middle phrase, which has defined apologetics-driven evangelism for decades: "Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have." Instead it was the entire verse, beginning with "Setting apart Christ as Lord" and ending with "do this with gentleness and respect."

Everts and Schaupp's thesis is this: Postmoderns respond best to evangelists who allow for and encourage a process. Though it nods to the mystery of that process, I Once Was Lost attempts to offer practical and specific advice—how-to's, even—for outreach to postmoderns.

Still, the book departs from a modern, rationalistic model for doing evangelism. It doesn't offer a manual. It is fresh, real, and based on the authors' direct experience. The label postmodern is held loosely, meant simply to describe "how things are right now," rather than to conform to a technical definition.

The authors, both InterVarsity Christian Fellowship leaders, identify "five thresholds" by which most young converts come to Christ. Using the parable of the growing seed in Mark 4:28–29 to frame the process, Everts and Schaupp outline five distinct "seasons": from distrust of Christians to trust; from spiritual complacency to curiosity; from being closed to Christianity to being open; from meandering to seeking; and finally, entrance over the "threshold of the kingdom."

The strength of the book lies in the hands-on ministry wisdom at its core. Cognitive and logical strategies of college evangelism simply don't work anymore; the game has changed.

During countless hours spent with young skeptics, Everts and Schaupp have discovered that today's adolescents, with their painful and almost constantly precarious lives, are suspicious of hidden agendas. At the same time, they are open to someone who initiates conversation with "gentleness and respect."

While the authors don't examine emerging adulthood, many who are following that trend are not surprised by the fruit of Everts and Schaupp's ministry. There is little doubt that adolescence has lengthened in recent years—as scholars like Jeffrey Arnett and Christian Smith will confirm.

Thus, today's 22-year-old is the developmental equivalent of a 17-year-old in 1980 (see "Getting a Life," Books & Culture, Nov./Dec. 2007). The authors' a priori assumption that today's college students must be dealt with differently than college students a few decades ago is right on.

Many in college ministry will find this book fresh and challenging. Others will see in it principles and observations in which they already function comfortably. Either way, I Once Was Lost provides an apt reminder that what it means to creatively and respectfully love those whom God loves must change over time.

Chap Clark, professor of youth, family, and culture at Fuller Theological Seminary and author of Hurt: Inside the World of Today's Teenagers



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manitoumagwa   Posted: June 30, 2008 1:15 PM
As someone who's been there, this is right on. Anyone who actually knows real Christians, not Christianettes of the mainsteam, but real shining Christians, knows the goodness, the love, the relief to be found in the family of God. This is not the 80's, when so many were hurt by mainstream Christianity, televangelism etc. We have received a fresh outpouring of the holy spirit in recent times, the fat old white guys are dying off, and the spirit of Christ is prospering in the hearts of many who were total counterculturalists (like me) and rebels and outlaws. We FEEL it, for real, and it is good, not bad, it is empowering, not dumbing down, it is liberating, not imprisoning. Open your mind and heart, like the book says, go from distrust of Christians to trust; from spiritual complacency to curiosity; from being closed to Christianity to being open; from meandering to seeking; and finally, entrance over the "threshold of the kingdom." Thats exactly how it happened for me. Love be with you.

Hank   Posted: June 23, 2008 10:35 PM
It seems to me that this Tony guy has been brainwashed without even concentrating. Tony, Jesus loves you too. He died on the cross just for people like you. Obviously, you are hurting deep inside.

Paul   Posted: June 23, 2008 9:40 PM
As a Christian, I would say that Tony's comments are an accurate portrayal of Evangelical Christianity in the U.S. and "mind numbing" is a good word to use, as he is quoting Karl Marx, who had some poignant and truthful comments about Christianity, but also remember Marx embraced the Enlightenment, the same as most Evangelicals embrace it, whereby he thought that "man is the supremacy of man". It seems like people say, "Believe in God", but people say what am I believing in? Evangelical Christianity is structured as a "belief in belief in God" and that justifies us. Really? Atheism is on the rise predominantly because of a Christian belief in a Theistic God, i.e. a God who is above all, but not incarnated into society and socially relevant, I mean look at all the negative comments about Jeremiah Wright. On the other side, I think Chap Clark asking the tough questions about youth in America. Word!

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