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WRESTLING WITH ANGELS
The Grace of Wrath
Is there any story about God that isn't a love story?



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When Evan Almighty hit theaters last summer, some evangelicals worried that elements of the movie were sacrilegious. One of their particular objections got me thinking.

In the film, God (played by Morgan Freeman) claims that people miss the point of the story of Noah's Ark because they think it's about God's anger, when really it's a "love story." Some Christians saw that statement as an offensive distortion of the Genesis account of God's wrath. Their protest left me pondering what I suspect is a fundamentally important question: Is there any story about God that isn't a love story?

Growing up, I had two images of God. The first was a painting on my bedroom wall, Bernhard Plockhorst's Jesus Blessing the Children. After bedtime prayers, I would drift off imagining I was one of those children in Jesus' embrace. Everything about that picture reinforced the first thing I was taught in Sunday school: God Is Love.

My other image was a mental one I'll call "the Vengeful God," a peeved Father Time crossed with an accusing Uncle Sam. That picture helped me remember that God hates sin, and reinforced the second thing I learned in Sunday school: God Is Holy.

We sang about grace at my church, and we meant it. But we suspected that an exclusive emphasis on God's love would lessen our desire to live holy lives. So periodically, our preacher would thunder about God's wrath and judgment, ensuring we were never "soft on sin."

God is love, BUT God hates sin. How does one hold those two realities in tension? I unconsciously developed a theology that intermittently had God the Son and God the Father in a good cop, bad cop routine, with the Holy Spirit stepping in as a sympathetic parole officer.

I professed that God was love all the way through, but deep down I couldn't help assuming he was a bit like me. Even his love had to have limits. It stopped at sin and turned into wrath. Naturally.

My understanding began to change when I read Baxter Kruger's depiction of God's wrath as his love in action—his emphatic "No!" to anything that leads to our destruction. That perspective flipped a switch for my husband and me. If our daughter stepped into oncoming traffic, she might perceive our reaction (screaming "No!" and yanking her out of harm's way) to be harsh and unloving. But in reality it would be an expression of our fiercest and purest love. Is that how it is with God?

What if God's wrath is not a caveat, qualification, or even a counterpoint to his love, but an expression of it? What if God grieves sin less because it offends his sensibilities, and more because he hates the way it distorts our perceptions and separates us from him?

Recently, my friend Liliane told me the story of her conversion. Years ago, someone handed her a pamphlet with Jesus on the cover asking, "Do you love me?" Honestly, I can't say I do, Liliane whispered to Jesus. I really like you, though. I want to get to know you.

For a year, Liliane attended church and spent time with people who knew Jesus. One day, with a start, she realized she did love him. He'd captured her heart.

"That whole first year, I didn't read the Bible, and I'm really glad I waited," she told me, laughing at my raised eyebrow. "You know how, when you're with someone you really trust, you can say the hard things if you need to? Now that I know God, I see his love all through the Bible, even in the hard bits."

There are some pretty hard bits in Scripture. It is difficult to frame, say, the saga of Sodom and Gomorrah as a love story. But if we truly believe that God not only loves, but is love, we must believe there is no action he can take that is not animated by love.

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J. Sharp   Posted: May 16, 2008 12:06 PM
This article expresses the father-son portrait of God and men and there are many other biblical portraits which express the emotion of God's love toward people. No Father desires to show wrath to his son. However, the Bible is not limited to this portrait. It also gives the portrait of God as the potter and us as the clay, God as the vine-keeper and us as the vineyard, God as a man and us as a garment, etc... Each of these latter portraits convey less emotional attachment for a reason. Concerning these portraits there are many places where God is said to despise them, cast them off, dash them in peices, and abhor them. The biblical language and portraits are chosen by each biblical author in particular places in order to express the primary emotion that God is then feeling towards a person/people. We do great damage to ourselves and to the Scripture to limit ourselves to one perception of God toward men as though He were always primarily motivated to act in one emotion.

George T.   Posted: May 15, 2008 7:36 PM
This is what I call a "Usefull" aricle. I will forward it and follow up on it. Thank you for your help.

Anne P.   Posted: May 13, 2008 7:12 PM
I've been pondering this issue since reading Arends' article, because she hits on a topic I struggle with. I've always been troubled by a loving God creating something like hell. It's such a tough reality . . . . one that often keeps me from initiating discussions about my faith with unbelieving friends. It seems almost indefensible. A thought that struck me today, though, is this: God's eternal wrath only comes after people repeatedly refuse His loving advances (He doesn't really jerk people from being squashed by a car and send them directly to hell, does He?). I'm wondering whether it's accurate to say that people choose hell when they decide to refuse God's love and correction. Also, would we believe God really loves those who *do* choose Him if He allowed everyone--even those who continually reject Him--to enjoy eternity in Heaven? Would that be more defensible? Might the existence of hell have something to do with God expressing His love through fair-ness?

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