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Soulwork
Lament for Lost Eden
What to look for in a real church.



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Europeans came to the American wilderness looking for Eden, and Americans have been looking for it ever since. John Winthrop, one of the founding Puritans, framed it in terms of community. In his famous "City on a hill" speech, he describes the "city" he and his fellow voyagers are hoping to establish this way:

We must entertain each other in brotherly affection; we much be willing to abridge ourselves of our superfluities, for the supply of others necessities; we must uphold a familiar commerce together in all meekness, gentleness, patience, and liberality. We must delight in each other, make others' conditions our own, rejoice together, mourn together, labor and suffer together: always having before our eyes our commission and community in the work, our community as members of the same body.

This lovely vision became clouded within a generation, and Puritan preachers soon lamented the "great and visible decay of the power of Godliness amongst many" (from "The Result of the 1679 General Synod"). Many an American preacher and writer since have repeated the lament, right up to our day. We mock the angry revivalist for his self-righteous condemnation of backslidden believers, but beneath the jeremiad, huddled in the corner of his breast, is a weeping child, wounded and weary with the church, that community in which he had put so much hope and only found disappointment.

Many wax eloquent about disappointment with God, just as many lament their disappointment with the church. At least one major book a year rehearses the lament. In 2007, there was unChristian: What a New Generation Really Thinks about Christianity … and Why It Matters, by Dave Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons. The following year, Washington Times writer Julia Duin gave us Quitting Church: Why the Faithful Are Fleeing and What to Do about It. Coming out shortly is Larry Crabb's Real Church: Does It Exist? Can I Find It?

These books detail the reasons why so many find the church disappointing, to the point that they are leaving in proverbial droves. While Puritan preachers castigated those departing the church, these modern jeremiads defend the departing and point an angry finger at the church. And with good reason: Anyone who has imbibed the New Testament's compelling vision of a Spirit-led church resonates deeply with Winthrop's description of Christian community. Such a vision gets planted deep in our breasts. So attracted are we to it that some are willing to leave a secure homeland and risk a hazardous journey across the face of the deep to be a part of it.

And so we enter door after church door, hoping to find a community where we can, in Winthop's apt phrase, "delight in each other." What we bump into time and again is just a building full of people. Some delight in each other all right, but to the point of excluding us. In other places, Winthop's words about "meekness, gentleness, patience, and liberality" are but antonyms of what we experience. There is "labor and suffering," though not "together" but instead against each other. The church, we discover too soon for our liking, is nothing but a house of sinners, a great and visible display of the "decay of the power of Godliness."

So we empathize with many who wander into the wilderness of faith without community. Some write about these lonely sojourners, while most of us just long for, in the words of Crabb, a church that stands out "as an alternative community that offers what everyone was created to enjoy." Or, as his title suggests, a "real church."

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Rick   Posted: March 09, 2009 2:19 PM
Wooo Hooo, Yea! Hallelujah! This is good stuff. I am so fed up with people bashing "the church" - which BTW is always "those other people - as though they are perfect in their love and care for everyone around them when their griping demonstrates they too do not have the love of Christ for God's people. It takes no discernment or spiritual insight to see and point out problems - pagans do that all the time. But it takes courage to get in the trenches with messed up people and gut out the Christian life with real folks, with real problems in a really sinful world. PS - Mr. set free because you have no clergy. Thanks for setting all the rest of us straight. What a relief that someone finally got it right and you are the one. (yes, read sarcasm in that). What a sign of the times. "Don't let anyone tell me what to do. We are all equal. No authority - spiritual or otherwise." Friend, it was God's idea, from the start to have appointed leaders (Ep 4). Call them what you like.

Christina   Posted: March 07, 2009 9:56 AM
I am moved by this article--it's a wonderful reminder of what Jesus called us to be as a body of believers....we're being made perfect with the genuine humility that comes with looking at other sinners and seeing the sin in ourselves....then accepting the forgiveness our good Lord gives us and, in love, forgiving others. Of course we'll become disillusioned with our churches!!! Just like we'll inevitably become disappointed in our spouses, but we grow, learn, forgive, and choose to love, over and over again....Thank you for this thoughtful and wise reflection.

Kris   Posted: March 07, 2009 6:43 AM
Right on target. Matt - this isn't hopeless pessimism. It's a call to accept one another as Christ has accepted us. The church is where we practice and learn the kind of love we are called to.

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