I Want to Be Accepted As I Am, But I’ll Take a Cure Too
Amy Julia Becker responded to recent debates over some preliminary research showing that drug therapy might improve cognitive function in people with Down syndrome. Several high-profile bloggers wrote about this research from the angle of whether Down syndrome should be cured, if it could be. The question led to long comment threads discussing the intersection between disability and identity. By curing Down syndrome, would you be altering the person with Down syndrome to such an extent that you would be tampering with their identity?
Becker's response—besides pointing out the obvious jump-the-gun factor that the research cited was on mice, not humans, and that it is potentially a treatment and not a cure—was subtitled "Why we shouldn't be too quick to think disabilities need correcting." In discussing her daughter's Down syndrome, Becker brought up the frequently cited Christian narrative whereby disease, illness, and disability result from the Fall and the fallen nature of the world we live in. She objects to this narrative for her daughter, saying, "Our daughter is fallen, yes, but she is no more fallen than I am. She is no more or less broken, no more or less beloved."
As someone who embraces the fallen-world narrative in explaining my own genetic disorder, I was caught up short by Becker's dismissal of that narrative as explanation for illness and disability. When she used the term "broken," of course, she was referring to spiritual brokenness. But as someone with osteogenesis imperfecta (OI), also known as brittle bone disease, I can't help hearing it literally as well. I am more broken than other people. My body does not function as it should. Bones support our bodies' most essential functions. The reason that babies with the most severe type of OI die soon after birth is that their rib cages cannot support respiration. Bones are designed to break only under extreme stress—a skiing accident, a fall from a tree, a car crash. When I was about four, I sat down on the bathroom floor to talk to my grandmother as she was brushing her hair, and my femur (thigh bone) broke. This is not how it is supposed to be. My body and my bones are deficient. And I wish they weren't, even though I understand that my bones and my identity are so intertwined in ways good and bad that "me" without OI would be a very different "me."
I embrace the fallen-world explanation for my bone disorder because I cannot embrace the other two explanations. One option is that my bone disorder, and the pain and suffering that come with it, are God's will, something God either orchestrated or allowed to serve a greater purpose. This is a popular interpretation among Christians, leading to such clichés as "God will not give you more than you can handle" (which I believe is a distortion of 1 Corinthians 10:13, which says God will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear) or "Everything happens for a reason." Some Christians compare God to human parents who make their children do things the children perceive as suffering—eat their vegetables, bring home good report cards before getting a driver's license, miss a friend's birthday party as punishment for bad behavior. But parents who break their children's bones to teach them a lesson are criminals, not good parents. I can accept that God's purposes and plan are so vastly beyond my human pea-brain that I cannot hope to understand them, but I also have to believe that God knows that snapping children's bones in two to teach them a lesson is cruelty, not loving discipline.

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Marian Van Til
The author doesn’t believe her bone disorder was given to serve some greater purpose: God isn’t cruel. But Scripture shows repeatedly that everything God does and SENDS has a "greater purpose": his own glory. I've been ill for years (Crohn's); my husband has post-polio syndrome. God SENT them. Yes. And it's our job to learn to respond in ways that reveal his glory. "Did he sin, or his parents?" Jesus’ critics asked of a blind man. "Neither," Jesus said. He was born blind so that God would be glorified in his healing. He spent years blind FOR THAT MOMENT! Cruel? Not in GOD'S economy. Dollar says, "Death and pain were not part of the original plan.” Did sin take God unawares? He quickly came up with Plan B when Adam and Eve disobeyed him? No, sin and salvation are part of his eternal plan. Christ is the Lamb that was slain from the foundation of the world.
Earl Wajenberg
A point of information: Down's Syndrome is not just a mental disability. Down's people also have many other health problems, including lung problems and early onset deafness and Alzheimer's disease -- at least, if they are sufficiently affected. Like many other disorders, Down's comes in a range of sizes, depending on how much extra 23rd chromosome you've got.
Joseph
When the disciples asked of a beggar if he sinned or his parents. Jesus simply said neither, but it is for the glory of God. It is my belief that as humand we tend to see suffering as the "other". But, what if the suffering is not the other but an inherent part of the human experience. The Bible says (I am paraphrasing ofcourse) - in the crucible of affliction you have perfected me. May be suffering is what God has intended humans to have. May be even those who seem to be happy all the time do have some suffering of their own which we do not know of. Suffering has different forms for different people. Either physical or spiritual or some other form. Just as each individual is tempted to sin by different sins yet no Sin has overwhelmed someone which is not human (as paul said - I have again paraphrased). And all Sins are overcome-able through Christ. It is he who is Glorified in all this. A mystery that is to be grasped (as paul said in another context).