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May 26, 2012

Home > 2011 > January (Web-Only)Christianity Today, January (Web-Only), 2011
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One Wedding and Six Funerals
What it can mean to participate in the life of God.




January 8 was a day filled with vivid images for me: the winter sun shining on fresh fallen snow in my quaint little town; my eldest daughter stunningly beautiful in her wedding dress; the look on her fiancé's face as my wife and I walked her down the aisle; the happy reunion with friends at the reception; the laughter and dancing—well, I gush. It was one of the happiest days of my life.

I didn't read the news that day, but the next morning I found out about the other event of January 8, the shooting that left bloody bodies littered on the pavement in Tucson—and a fiancé, parents of a nine-year-old girl, and an assortment of spouses and other loved ones in a state of shock and grief.

How could a day that was so bright for some of us be so dark for others? It's a contrast that makes itself known every day of the year, every year of the decade, in every decade and every century. This reality is no respecter or persons, nor events. It will invade the homes of the wealthy and the poor, and put a damper on a father's formerly unalloyed joy. It's enough to make one mourn.

Jesus said that those who mourn are blessed. It's a nice sentiment, but not many of us believe it. We live in a land of possibility thinking, of people seeking their best life now. That doesn't include mourning. We face tragedy by telling one another to put it behind us, to make a fresh start. To mourn is to meditate on the past, and we don't admire people who dwell on the past. No, this is the first day of the rest of our lives! Let's take the tiger by the tail! The future beckons us!

We traffic in the inspirational because we really do want to be blessed, and this seems the shortest route there. But it's interesting that in the Beatitudes—Jesus' meditation on blessedness in Matthew 5—there is nothing positive or motivational to be found. He refers either to human misery (poverty of spirit, sadness, getting harassed or even killed), scorned character traits (meekness), or activities beyond the daily reach of mortals (righteousness, mercy, and peacemaking). And right there at the beginning of his meditation on blessedness stands the odd little saying: "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted."

It's both odd and prosaic. In the normal course of human affairs, people who mourn are indeed comforted by their loved ones. We don't need a revelation of God-with-us to tell us that. We could have figured that out on our own. But since this is spoken by Jesus, we may assume that in the prosaic lies something beyond human understanding.

For one thing, Jesus is obliquely pointing to the comfort that will be ours at the end of history, when God "will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away" (Rev. 21:4). This is the trajectory of every beatitude. The Beatitudes are end-times prophecy at its best.

When Jesus talks, he often talks as he does here: about the prosaic, about the end of all things, and at the same time, about himself. He is, after all, the divine made prosaic, the prosaic that is the destiny of history, and the prosaic that not only points to something blessed, but is the very means of blessedness. In this case, the means of blessedness is mourning.

What we see in Jesus is the revelation of God's way of salvation. There is no resurrection without death. There is no joy without despair. There is no comfort without mourning. Those who mourn will be comforted precisely because they mourn. Their mourning is blessed not because they are being vulnerable or compassionate or empathetic or practicing some other virtue. Their mourning is blessed because it participates in the mourning of Jesus—the one who wept for Lazarus, grieved at the sin of Jerusalem, despaired of God's presence on the Cross, and now sits at the right hand of God, mourning for a world drowning in sin and sorrow. When we mourn, we are living in Christ, allowing Jesus' life to live through us. We are, to use Peter's language, partaking in the divine nature (2 Pet. 1:4) of the One who carries our griefs and sorrows (Is. 53:4).





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Displaying 1–5 of 9 comments

Annie Kirkby

January 25, 2011  12:17pm

Yes, there is no comfort without mourning. That's the definition of comfort. But saying there is "no joy without despair" takes this logic too far. The eternal trinity always has been and always will be pure joy unto itself, without any despair at all. The father, son, and spirit have no need of the dark backdrop of despair to define or enhance their joy. And someday you and I will have that joy with no despair at all, too! God be praised!

Judith Warren-Brown

January 21, 2011  3:48pm

We are embedded in a world of sin, suffering, chaos, death and as a result, mourning. We mourn for all our griefs and losses and tragedies, the biggest of which is that some will be lost forever and will have no hope. We mourn because somethings do not feel vindicated, like the Holocaust and the atrocities that have happened on our planet. We mourn for our powerlessness in the face of our finitude. We shall be comforted in that in God through Christ all things will be made new.

LOUIS SANDBERG

January 21, 2011  11:16am

Mourn is a verb. Mourning involves doing. When I am sorry for my sins, I am mourning. When I grieve at a wake, at a funeral, I am mourning. I suppose prosaic is a good word. I never have seen it used in connection with anything The Savior has ever said.

Tony from Houston

January 21, 2011  9:57am

Thank you for making our mourning okay. Sometimes we live out faith and feel a sense of pain and sorrow, even though all is wonderful and we try so hard to focus on the joys and blessings of following Jesus. Pain makes pearls, for the oyster and us. Trite, but so true.

Lee V

January 21, 2011  7:41am

An article like this, while comforting in the moment, doesn't fit with much of what I experience in the current evangelical church. There I find too many pat answers, Bible verses taken out of context and slapped onto your problem like a band-aid, catchy one-liners like those found on bumper stickers or church signs. "If you feel far from God, guess who moved...God never gives you more than you can handle"... I've seen all too often where people are judged or critiqued on how well they are handling difficulties/trauma in life; all too much of the underlying attitude that it's all about whether you do it (faith, walking with God, living your life) right. In contrast, every line in the Beatitudes brings me back to Jesus, to the cross of Christ...hungering for the gift of His righteousness, seeing my unending need and experiencing His unending grace, knowing that He alone makes my heart pure so I can see glimpses of God. An occasional article cannot undo contradictory teaching/culture.

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