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Parental Frights: Can Parents Practice Rites that Scare Children?

Mom gets 18 months probation for showing her daughter a ritual chicken death.

A Pennsylvania woman who insisted her 7-year-old daughter watch the killing of a chicken and eat its heart was sentenced to 18 months probation in June. The child told a teacher that the ceremony gave her nightmares.

Prosecutors charged 33-year-old Yenitza Colichon with child abuse and neglect. Colichon said she was seeking to protect her daughter while away at U.S. Army basic training by using a rite of the Central African religion Palo Mayombe.

Defense attorneys argued unsuccessfully that Colichon's right to religious freedom protects her from prosecution.

The main conflict is between parents' right to direct the religious upbringing of their children and the government's interest in protecting the health and safety of children, said Luke Goodrich, deputy national litigation director for the Becket Fund. "It's hard to draw a line," he said. "One benchmark is physical harm. Another is the state law governing abuse and neglect. Somebody who claims the religious right to engage in abuse and neglect will have a pretty weak case."

But with different abuse and neglect laws for each state, finding a standard becomes difficult, he said.

The U.S. Supreme Court has not given much guidance on the issue, according to Carl Esbeck, law professor at the University of Missouri. The government cannot judge parents differently if they justify their actions religiously.

Not everyone agrees.

Religious motivation does make a difference, according to Doug Laycock, law professor at the University of Virginia.

"It's a growing position among secular intellectuals to say there is no exception for religion," he said. "But of course there is. There always has been."

Otherwise, women and homosexuals would be priests in Roman Catholic churches. Children couldn't drink communion wine. Quakers would have to swear oaths.

"We've got all kinds of exceptions for religious practices," Laycock said. "But if a religious practice does significant, tangible harm to an unwilling third party or a child, the religious liberty has to give way."

Still, Colichon's case is troubling because it involves psychological—not physical—harm, he said. "It is very dangerous for the state to be saying, 'Your religion is bad for you.' "

There is also some danger of a nanny state, said Tom Farr, a professor of religion at Georgetown University.

"I'd be very cautious in making such a judgment, and err on the side of the parent," he said. "Judges [shouldn't] get involved unless there is clear and compelling evidence of danger or physical harm to the child."


Related Elsewhere:

Additional Christianity Today coverage of children's rights and parenting includes:

The Myth of the Perfect Parent | Why the best parenting techniques don't produce Christian children. (January 8, 2010)
My Top 5 Books for Shaping Parents | Caryn Rivadeneira reviews notable guides for Christian parents. (January 8, 2010)
Missionary Child Abuse| All God's Children recalls the travails of a West Africa boarding school. (August 18, 2009)
Faith-based Child Abuse| Shamblin defends Atlanta couple charged with murder. (April 1, 2004)
Gay Parenting on Trial | More homosexuals seek custody or adoption of young children. (July 8, 2002)

CT also has more news articles on our website.


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September 2011, Vol. 55, No. 9, Pg 15, "Parental Frights"
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Clark Coleman

September 20, 2011  10:48am

"Colichon said she was seeking to protect her daughter while away at U.S. Army basic training by using a rite of the Central African religion Palo Mayombe." Yes, but let us all chant in unison: "Diversity enriches us." It is wonderful to have such customs brought to our country, and anathema be pronounced on anyone who says otherwise.

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Peter mcDonough

September 19, 2011  6:14pm

Could Michael Vic have sighted religious ritual in the slaughter of dogs?

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Christian Lawyer

September 18, 2011  9:10pm

This article makes it sound like the mom was found guilty in a trial. To the contrary, the linked report makes clear the mother took a plea deal after the judge denied her motion to dismiss the charges. Taking a plea means she avoided trial and gave up her right to appeal. The plea deal, with no jail time, probably allowed her to continue to serve in the Army, which she almost certainly would not have been able to do if she had gone to trial. This was one trial judge's refusal to dismiss a charge. It's not precedent for much of anything. But, if you're looking for precedent for the idea that the government should stay out of how you choose to raise your children, whether your decisions are based on religious beliefs or not, you might want to check out the line of cases supporting the much-maligned "right to privacy." Without that line of cases, you likely wouldn't be able to home-school your kids.

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