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Wrestling with Angels

The Other Prodigal Son

The Prodigal's coming-home gala was for both sons.

We moved on to another of Jesus' stories: the parable of the Great Banquet. I began to wonder if, from Jesus' perspective, having a feast thrown in one's honor is a blessing, but being invited to help the father host the banquet is a vastly greater gift. My husband and I love holding pool parties in our backyard. When things go well—when lots of people come and the food is tasty and there is laughter and music and good conversation—there is a particular satisfaction and intimacy we share as we debrief together over the cleanup.

Maybe the father in Jesus' story felt he could honor and bless his oldest boy more by inviting him into the deep relationship of mutual service than by merely giving him a party of his own. Maybe becoming a Christian is not only accepting Jesus into my life, but also accepting his incredible invitation to be a part of his life—to participate missionally in the triune God's cosmic plan of redemption.

As Jesus tells it, the Father is hosting a lavish banquet, and we're invited—not because of our own merit, but because he loves us. And there's more. He's invited us to help him throw the party—neither as servants nor as guests, but as family.


Related Elsewhere:

Previous columns byCarolyn Arends include:

Lessons From an Usher | What I learned about humility from a gentle greeter. (December 27, 2011)
Power Washed by God | The blessings—and danger—of divine proximity. (October 17, 2011)
A Both/And Path to Truth | Why the narrow way to faith is also expansive. (August 15, 2011)
Carolyn Arends Contemplates Her Own Death, and Yours | Going down singing: Why we should remember that we will die. (April 18, 2011)
Relationship That Leads to Life | Why God's law is good news. (August 11, 2010)

Wrestling with Angels

Carolyn Arends

Carolyn Arends

Singer/songwriter and author Carolyn Arends has written and released 9 albums and penned 2 books, including Wrestling With Angels (Harvest House/Conversantlife.com). She is a regular reviewer for Christianity Today Movies and a list of her blogs can be found at CarolynArends.com. Her bimonthly "Wrestling With Angels" column has appeared in Christianity Today since 2008.


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February 2012, Vol. 56, No. 2, Pg 44, "Party Favors"
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Michael acquah

February 23, 2013  3:36am

I see several lessons in the Parable. There's the obvious one of grace, the Father eagerly and joyfully accepting the repentant wayward son, since the bottom line is that Jesus came to seek and to save what was lost (Luke 19:10). But I think the Lord also wanted to show that it is FAITHFULNESS that gets rewarded, like the elder brother's. If you were to visit that home one week or one year after the banquet, you would see that Younger Son was home alright, but likely had nothing. Because remember the father's conclusion: "My child, you have always been with me, and ALL that is mine is YOURS". Everything was for Older Son. Some mistakenly assume that salvation by grace comes with heavenly rewards. Not necessarily (1 Cor 3:12-15). That's what the judgment seat is about: those who get rewards are those who were faithful... like the Elder Son. The extent to which the grace in my life translated into works of faithfulness (1 Cor 15:10), determines whether I'm rewarded, and how richly.

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Charles De Wolf

November 24, 2012  12:02am

As a linguist teaching for decades in a Japanese university, I have sometimes used the Prodigal Son as a readily available text in many languages, including Japanese, Anglo-Saxon, and, of course, New Testament Greek. I would emphasize to the students how familiar the story is in the West and show them Rembrandt's famous painting. (The story was once well enough known to even non-Christian Japanese that they would know the source of the set Sino-Japanese phrase "houtou-musuko" 'prodigal son'. But nowadays many students haven't even heard of Rembrandt, so it is all new to them.) It never occurred to me that anyone would be critical of the Father, but when many were, I expressed my surprise to a wise Jesuit priest I have known for many years. But he too said that he has harbored sympathy for the elder son...I happen to be the eldest child of my parents, but perhaps I feel more like the prodigal...

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david quiroz

February 14, 2012  11:55pm

@Kwon-Why can't the "older son" represent the Pharisees? (Not that it only represents them). In the historical setting in which the parable was given, tax collectors and sinners (analogous to the younger son), as well as, pharisees would have been the audience of that parable. In that setting it would make perfect sense for the "older son" (with his self-righteous behavior towards his Father) to represent the Pharisees. I think we should be as precise as we can be with the scriptures (2 Timothy 2:15), precision brings clarity and understanding, with the opposite (ambiguity), only birthing foggness and confusion. I think the former far better, don't you?

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