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February 12, 2012

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The Switch
What happens when a sperm donor's sample inconceivably gets swapped for another—without the knowledge of the mom-to-be? In this case, a romantic comedy.






The Switch

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MPAA rating: PG-13
(for mature thematic content, sexual material including dialogue, some nudity, drug use, and language)

Genre: Romantic Comedy

Theater release:
August 20, 2010
by Miramax

Directed by: Josh Gordon, Will Speck

Runtime: 1 hour 40 minutes

Cast: Jason Bateman (Wally Mars), Jennifer Aniston (Kassie Singleton), Jeff Goldblum (Leonard), Juliette Lewis (Debbie), Patrick Wilson (Roland), Thomas Robinson (Sebastian)

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Based on a short story by Jeffrey Eugenides (The Virgin Suicides, Middlesex), The Switch is a modern refutation of the timeworn wisdom of the playground: "First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes a baby in a baby carriage." Generations of schoolgirls have sung that tune while skipping rope on playgrounds everywhere, and our leading lady Kassie Singleton (Jennifer Aniston) was probably one of them. So when at the age of 40, this successful-but-still-single career woman decides to conceive a child through artificial insemination, she doesn' take kindly to the scoffing of her best friend Wally (Jason Bateman). "I didn't grow up in Minnesota dreaming of the day I'd put an ad on Craigslist for a sperm donor!" she shoots back at him in exasperation.

The Switch has an escapist gloss to it, set in New York and focusing on people with the sorts of jobs that afford them large sun-lit apartments and stress-free single parenting. Though it's not a lifestyle most people can afford (at least not in Manhattan), Kassie's situation is familiar to plenty of thirty- and fortysomething women trying to reconcile their desire to have children with their lack of a husband. Handwringing over the anemic state of modern marriage aside, what's a girl to do when the biological alarm clock starts to ring—and there's still no ring? I see little evidence that many women would prefer to be a single parent if given the option of a healthy marriage. But more and more, my single twentysomething friends, even those with conservative visions of marriage and family life, are looking at their single thirtysomething friends and making contingency plans should they also still be single at that age. Adoption is a popular Plan B.

Jennifer Aniston as Kassie, Jason Bateman as Wally
Jennifer Aniston as Kassie, Jason Bateman as Wally

For Kassie, Plan B is Roland (Patrick Wilson), a married assistant professor (of feminist literary theory, of course) who, strapped for cash, agrees to become the "seed guy" for Kassie's child. Women fawn all over the handsome and sensitive Roland at the party Kassie's friend Debbie (Juliette Lewis) throws to celebrate the insemination while Roland's wife stands awkwardly in the corner. The party itself is a study in awkwardness, despite Debbie's proclamation that this is how "everyone is doing it these days!"

Wally finds Kassie sitting alone in a bedroom, looking every bit the forlorn virgin bride privately mourning an unwanted arranged marriage, resignation submerging whatever hope for the future that might hide just below the surface. "I thought this party would make it better, but it's just really depressing," Kassie confides before putting on her crown of ribbons and rejoining the group in the living room.

Patrick Wilson as Roland
Patrick Wilson as Roland

Wally, the self-centered, somewhat neurotic best friend (who would be gay in a slightly different movie), is actually the film's protagonist. That's made clear when, after getting pregnant, Kassie moves back to Minnesota to raise her child closer to family. Despite palpable chemistry with Kassie, Wally retreats when things get too intense on the romantic front; he's unable to make any commitment to Kassie beyond friendship. And she gave up waiting on him long ago. (I'd like to ask my male friends about the plausibility of passing on romance with a woman as beautiful and competent as Jennifer Aniston, settling instead for a close friendship. But this is Hollywood and sometimes you just have to roll with it.)

Seven years later, Kassie returns to New York with her son Sebastian (Thomas Robinson) in tow to find Wally very much as she left him (If my math is correct, both of them should be in their mid-to-late 40s by the time, but neither looks much older than 38. Again, rolling with it.) And they fall back into their comfortable way of being in each other's lives. Only now there's Sebastian, who looks and acts an awful lot like Wally.

Hmmmm.

Kassie and Sebastian (Thomas Robinson)
Kassie and Sebastian (Thomas Robinson)

What Wally can't remember is what you already know from the movie's trailer: he switched his sperm for Roland's sperm at the party—the very "switch" to which the title refers. Walls was drunk and blitzed on some sort of pill Debbie gave him. Diane Sawyer was also involved. So, needless to say, shenanigans ensue. Roland, freshly divorced, is now back in the picture, trying to be the father, while Wally and Sebastian clearly have a more natural connection. The questions are clear: Will Wally man up? Will he face up to his love for Kassie and now Sebastian? If Kassie finds out what Wally did with the sperm, will she ever forgive him? Will Wally lose everything?




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Elle Bee

April 06, 2011  12:54pm

Wasn't this supposed to be a movie from a woman's perspective? I thought it was going to be about a single woman who is tired of waiting for marriage to start a family, and who makes a hard decision to become a single mother by choice. I thought it would be about her, not about her best (male) friend's disapproving-yet-always-supporting perspective. And what was up with that "I gotta say something hard" for 40 minutes of the movie? Just say it already! The best friend FINALLY bares his soul at the worst possible moment and gets the predictable slap in the face, predictably humiliated in front of a house full of strangers, and things somehow miraculously bloom between the lovers from there... come on writers!! In the end all the drama and controversy about this being a movie about a woman choosing single motherhood was for nothing. It ended up being a very traditional movie about: boy finally pops the question, girl predictably says "mayyyybeeee," but we all know they'll marry and sure

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Holly Lynn

September 02, 2010  11:26am

I am going to see this movie today! I am hoping that they dont take God's name in vain too much!!!!! Nobody ever comments in the use of Christs name... Alan- the bible is very clear on purity. I can assure u (even before seeing the movie) Jesus wouldn't think this bathroom scene is cute. He is holy and pure and mans way are wicked and selfish. Not to preach at you....just be careful when saying Jesus approves of sexual impurity of ANY form.

Josh Milstead

August 23, 2010  6:04pm

Greg, you're a prude and a right-wing pundit. Cheer up...it's a freekin' romantic comedy for cryin' out loud!

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