My Boyfriend Raped Me
Many date rapists are repeat offenders and are skilled at identifying weaknesses in potential victims. The rapist is looking for a woman he can control, because his primary motivation is power rather than sex.
Some date rapists exhibit a Jekyll-and-Hyde personality. They may appear to be great guys. But when under stress or when they find a vulnerable victim, their personalities change.
What to Do If You Are Raped
• Tell someone—a parent, a friend. You need support, and you don't need to be alone.
• Do not shower or clean yourself. As soon as possible, go to a hospital or clinic. They'll be able to treat you if you have injuries. They'll also help you preserve evidence in case you press charges.
• Call the police or a rape crisis center. One of the following organizations may also be able to help you:
Minirth Meier/New Life Clinics: 1-800-637-7974
Rapha Treatment Centers: 1-800-383-4673
The Center for the Prevention of Sexual and Domestic Violence: (206) 634-1903
Adapted from Beauty Restored by Me Ra Koh, Appendix II, page 5 (Regal Books, 2001).