For today's entry in the Friday Five interview series, we catch up with Rebekah Lyons. Alongside her husband, Gabe, Rebekah serves as cofounder of Q Ideas, a nonprofit organization that helps Christian leaders winsomely engage culture. Rebekah Lyons is the author of Freefall to Fly: A Breathtaking Journey Toward a Life of Meaning.
Today we talk to Rebekah about mental illness, speaking with vulnerability, and how Christian moms can navigate the tension between home and career.
You are pretty open in your book and in your recent public speaking about your struggles with anxiety and depression. Was it difficult to admit this, given your role as a Christian leader?
Actually, no. I've been an "over-sharer" all my life.
This story overtook me. I never intended to write a book, but it was an earnest effort to get it down, for my own healing and processing. The week I began writing, I realized this wasn't a story of my anxiety or spiral, but God's story of redemption and rescue. The best advice I received early on was, "Don't hold back."
I didn't unearth how much my story would resonate with others until I started hearing feedback in the early stages. It seemed everyone shared angst over someone they loved struggling with the same thing—especially within the church.
What can church leaders do to create a culture where its people are free to talk about anxiety, depression, and other mental illnesses?
Church leaders can lead by being vulnerable themselves. It must be so difficult to do this when everyone is looking to you for answers, but simply put, we are all broken people in desperate need of a Savior.
When we lead with vulnerability, we invite others to do the same. It connects us with each other, and our secrets lose power ...