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When I started my church, our vision was to be the presence of Christ in our neighborhoods and work places. We called our small groups "Living Rooms" and we hoped that those groups would "move into their neighborhoods."

That meant building relationships with our neighbors, tangibly loving people through service, and welcoming people into our homes. Our people took this seriously. They hosted barbeques at their homes, inviting their "lost" neighbors over. They built relationships with them. One Sunday each month, we left our seats and went out and served our neighbors so that we could demonstrate to them that God loved them.

After a couple years of building relationships and loving people, our Living Room leaders came back and said, "OK. We've built these relationships. We're ready to take the next step. We want to know how to engage our neighbors in a conversation about God. We want to begin to tell them about what we believe. I guess we want to proclaim the gospel to them, do evangelism."

Then came the crucial question: "What do we do next?"

A circle at Crilly's

Of course, they expected me to have the answers. But I had no idea what to do either. When I suggested inviting them into a Bible-focused "living room," they told me their neighbors would run. "Our neighbors won't sit in a circle with a Bible on their laps. They have no interest in that. It will freak them out."

Their concerns were valid. Here we were, living "missionally," doing really well at loving and serving and building relationships, but unsure how to take the next step in proclaiming the gospel to our neighbors.

Around that time, I met John Crilly. "Crilly" had just left his marketplace career to begin working with a ministry called Q Place (the Q stand s for "questions.)" Their focus was to help everyday Christians have meaningful conversations about God with people who believe differently. How did they do it? Questions.

While Crilly talked about their process, I was thinking, This might turn out to be our church's "next step". Crilly told me that he and a friend wanted to start a Q Place together, and they were praying for one other person to join them. The idea was to get a small group together to have an ongoing spiritual conversation in a safe place to explore and ask questions. A place where Christians host an opportunity to embrace the questions and the process of discovery, and the Holy Spirit can direct discussion as people explore their beliefs.

It didn't take long for me to decide that I was in.

We pulled together a list of people we had built relationships with and could naturally invite to our gathering. While learning how to facilitate a Q Place and praying together, we narrowed our list to those we suspected didn't really know Jesus. Then we began making invitations to a "one-time" discussion about God.

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Posted: September 2, 2013

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Richard Pheasant

September 13, 2013  3:59am

Quite possibly one of the best articles I have read on these pages. Natural evangelism - no agendas, no forcing, no putting people off, but allowing them to be themselves and through listening and gentle answers - when asked - allowing the Holy Spirit to draw them to Jesus. I once heard someone share, when they were being baptised, that "My friend built a bridge..... and Jesus walked across it." Sounds like you have found a natural and Spirit-led way of doing that. Thanks for sharing.

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RAYMOND HYLTON

September 11, 2013  6:39am

Evangelism is not a formula it is a conversation; and to have a conversation one has to be a good listener. Very helpful article!

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