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Thursday, February 7, 2008


 Welcome

It happens to me nearly every time I go to Target: I run in to quickly pick something up—a birthday card for a friend, a new kitchen appliance—and by the time I get to the checkout, my cart's packed with all the "extras" that caught my eye—a new type of shampoo, the CD I wanted, a cute top from the clearance rack. Examining the receipt afterward, my stomach drops in dismay at the amount I ended up spending on what should have been a $5 trip.

Being financially responsible is difficult, especially when you enjoy shopping. And when a husband and wife have differing perspectives on what to spend money on and how much to spend, it adds a new challenge to marriage. Nancy Floyd learned that lesson when she went on her first shopping trip as a newlywed and her husband gave her a spending limit. But after examining their budget and her heart, Nancy came up with a plan to use that $30 to bless her husband and change their marriage.

  • Marital differences also arise when it comes to communication. What happens when a wife wants to rehash her day but her husband's glued to a high-pressure football game on TV? Read this couple's humorous and convicting results.


  • And if you're seeking unbiased advice for your differing financial opinions, you'll want to check out "Common Cents." This month's column addresses equity loans, the size of credit card purchases, and avoiding scams at restaurants.


As we prepare for Valentine's Day, be sure to stop by MarriagePartnership.com for more articles and stories about showing love to your sweetheart. May you learn to delight in one another and your many differences.

Blessings,
Elizabeth Diffin
Elizabeth Diffin
for Marriage Partnership


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Before I got outside, Kyle appeared behind me with a big smile. "Have fun. I love you." Just seeing him made me realize how much I already loved being married. It was so great to have someone smile and see you off every time you left the house.

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Want to Get Pregnant? Eat Ice Cream!

Newsflash: Drinking whole fat milk and eating ice cream is good for you—if you're trying to conceive. According to new research published by the European Society for Human Reproduction and Embryology, low-fat dairy products such as skimmed milk and yogurt can negatively impact ovulation, increasing your risk of infertility. On the other hand, women who ate at least two servings of ice cream a week reduced their risk of infertility by about 38 percent. Lead author of the study, Dr. Jorge Chavarro, says researchers believe the presence of fat soluble substances in dairy foods may improve ovarian function.

In a related study, Chavarro found that boosting your iron intake can encourage egg development, and therefore fertility. But be aware: The source of the iron is as important as the amount. Women who consumed their iron from non-animal sources, such as legumes, grains, and supplements, had the greatest protection against infertility.

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Eat: ice cream, whole milk, pasta, spinach, and baked beans
Avoid: low-fat yogurt, skim milk, red meat

And enjoy—this may be the only time a pint of Ben and Jerry's can be considered health food!


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 This Week's Poll
How are you and your spouse celebrating Valentine's Day?
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Vote here, and see how your answer compares to others'.

 Results of Last Week's Poll
Do you and your spouse use a budget?
  • Yes, but it's flexible: 46%.
  • No, we have other financial practices: 23%
  • What's a budget???: 21%
  • Yes, and we stick to it strictly: 11%
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