The official newsletter of Marriage Partnership magazine
Thursday, August 9, 2007
It was my favorite place to hide during a late night summer thunderstorm:
Right in the middle of my parents' big bed.
I'd get in between their protecting bodies, in between their warm covers … and in between them and their plans for any amorous activity that evening.
- If the arrival of kids in your home—whether a few months ago or 20 years ago—has interrupted your sex life, find practical ways to bring some bounce back to the bedroom.
- And if you're trying to rebound from an even more challenging interruption to your relationship, don't miss four steps for rebuilding trust after a painful betrayal.
- But if you don't think you'll ever be able to trust your spouse to pick a suitable—and mutually enjoyable—movie for date night, try these eight criteria for choosing the perfect flick.
- Then let us know which one of you usually selects the films you watch together.
And be sure to visit MarriagePartnership.com for more suggestions of activities you can do together on those stormy summer nights.
Thanks for reading,
Andrea Bianchi
Newsletter Editor
The Marriage Connection
To reply to this newsletter: marriage@christianitytoday.com
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HELP & HEALING
Starting Over
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By Ron R. Lee
 Love and Respect
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 Guarding Against an Affair
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 If Only He Knew
This was the first book Gary Smalley wrote on challenging men to understand the needs of women. He gives ten simple steps to strengthen any relationship with a woman and to understand her emotions.
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Spouse-proof Your Diet
Marriage can be hazardous to your weight. The reason? Most couples don't know how to negotiate food issues, such as how, what, and when they eat. Try these three ways to avoid packing on pounds while spending time with your mate:
- Don't view food as entertainment. Plan outings where the focus isn't on eating, such as seeing a comedy show or playing cards with friends.
- Eat like you did before you were married. Since couples share more meals after getting hitched, and men tend to eat more than women, women often unconsciously munch extra calories. Aim for a palm-sized portion of protein, a fist-size of whole grains, and a half plate of veggies.
- Get a move on. Working out together is a great motivator. Join a health club or start biking and plan a weekend cycling trip. You'll get your heart rate up in more ways than one!
Source: Woman's Day (January 2006)
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Who usually picks the movies you and your spouse watch together?
- The husband
- The wife
- It's pretty even / We take turns
- The kids
- We don't watch many movies together
Vote here, and see how your answer compares to others'.
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Who usually wins in your arguments?
- We both lose, because it's usually a draw: 25%
- The wife: 23%
- We both win, because we rarely argue: 21%
- The husband: 18%
- We each win about half the time: 13%
Total votes: 361
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Bedtime Lessons
Why I'm trying to stop being a compulsive, neurotic bed-maker.
Finding Father
Moving past a flawed parent to embrace the love of God.
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