The official newsletter of MarriagePartnership.com
Thursday, December 04, 2008
Our lead article this week is one of my favorites. Not because it's by one of my favorite people, Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages, or because he's writing it from his perspective as a man writing about husbands. I love this piece because it really gets to the heart of how husbands and wives should treat each other—Jesus Style. And I have to admit, it makes me take a step back and reassess my attitudes and actions toward those I love most deeply. You won't want to miss reading "The Gospel Truth."
Our second article is another great one—it's really practical help on setting and keeping boundaries for in-laws. And for many of us, especially during the holidays, those boundaries are most important and necessary.
Finally, I need your help. I'm having a terrible time coming up with a really cool, fun present for my husband this year—that won't break my bank account. Got any ideas? What are some of the best presents you've given your spouse? And what was his or her response that made the giving that much better? Drop me a line and tell me about it.
As always, love deeply and often.
Blessings!
Ginger Kolbaba
Editor, MarriagePartnership.com
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 SPIRITUALITY
The Gospel Truth
How did I miss what Jesus had to say about me and my marriage?
by Gary D. Chapman
Someone once told me that marriage is like flies on a window pane. The flies on the inside are trying to get out and those on the outside are trying to get in.
I can identify with that picture. For months leading up to my wedding, I could hardly wait to be married.
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FAMILY CONCERNS
Boundaries for In-laws
Establishing rules to protect your marriage
by John Townsend
 The Love Dare
Many marriages end when one partner says "I don't love you anymore." This book, featured in the movie Fireproof, will lead your heart back to truly loving your spouse. |
 The Five Love Languages
Gary Chapman identifies the five primary love languages and teaches us how to use these languages to express our love in all of our relationships. |
 The Christmas Card, DVD
In the midst of war in Afghanistan, a soldier receives a lovely card sent by a woman from California, giving him the strength to survive. A heartwarming story. |
Oh, You Didn't Want Oven Mitts?
Here are a few creative gift tips from Men's Health magazine to help you win points with the one you love:
Nostalgia.- Take a favorite old photo and have it framed.
- Recreate an early date.
- Call your spouse's college and order a sweatshirt.
- Fly in your spouse's childhood best friend for a visit.
Lessons. Dance lessons? Art class? Sign up for both of you, and you'll be giving the gift of your time too.
Freedom. Give your spouse coupons, good for time off from whatever household or childcare obligations he or she likes the least.
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How much will you spend on Christmas gifts for your spouse this year?
- We're not spending any money.
- $50 or less
- $50–$75
- $75–$100
- $100–$200
- $200–$300
- More than $300
Vote here, and see how your answer compares to others'.
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How often do you or your spouse travel for work?
- A couple times a year: 38%
- Never: 35%
- Once a month: 11%
- One of us is away during the week and home on weekends: 10%
- One of us is deployed: 5%
Total votes: 201
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