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Key Bible Verse: As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him (Psalm 103:13). Bonus Reading: Exodus 4:10-12.

When I was 12, a surprising thing happened. Dad asked me to go fishing with him. He was a busy executive, rarely around on weekends. We got along but never had a serious conversation unless I was in trouble at school. I was flattered.

On Saturday we headed for the marina, rented a boat and found a promising spot. Once we were settled, Dad said, "Son, I can see that you're changing from a boy to a man and that's a good thing. But I think you may also find this to be a confusing time."

Dad proceeded with the coming-of-age talk. At times he groped for words, but he didn't miss a thing. When he'd finished, I sat there, feeling the movement of the boat and the wind in my hair, wondering if I was dreaming. "Dad," I said, "having you talk to me like this is what I've always wanted, but I didn't think you'd want to."

He smiled and shook his head. "I've always had a hard time talking to you kids. But I want you to know I care about you, that I'm here if you need to talk to me about anything." I don't remember if we caught any fish that day. I do remember finding out for the first time that my dad really was my friend.

—R. S. in Sons: A Father's Love

• How do your kids see you? Take some time to really talk to them this week. Make it a habit.

Thought to Apply: It takes courage to stand up and speak, as well as to sit down and listen.

—ANONYMOUS

Credits: Adapted from— Wednesday: Bob Carlisle, Sons: A Father's Love (Word, 1999)

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