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Men of Integrity, Jan/Feb 2001

After My Son's Murder
This Week's Theme: Motivation—2 Corinthians 1-5
Sunday, January 28

Key Bible Verse: Now it is God who makes both us and you stand firm in Christ (2 Corinthians 1:21a).
Bonus Reading: 2 Corinthians 1:3-11, 21-22

At some point, every man will suffer moderate to severe loss of motivation. When it happens, it's frightening, especially for men used to being excited about life.

In 1990 my 30-year-old son was brutally murdered while working at moonlighting job as a taxi driver. One April night a customer simply set out to kill someone. My son answered the call for a taxi.

Prior to this tragic event, much of my motivational being was consumed by leading The Navigators and helping people grow spiritually. It was a tremendous challenge and still is! But after Steve's death, nothing seemed to matter anymore. It put every activity in a different perspective. My life went on "hold." Even spiritual activities seemed inconsequential. I wondered if purpose and motivation would ever return. Weeks and months went by as I continued in my leadership task, knowing that I wasn't "all there."

As I recovered from grief, motivation returned slowly, but in a very different form. Position and responsibility mattered little. A purifying and cleansing had taken place in my soul. I viewed life—and death—differently. I spent much time wrestling with some critical biblical issues: God's sovereignty, God's goodness, prayer … all those puzzling "whys" of life.

—Jerry White in Dangers Men Face

Prayer for the Week:
Oh, God, show me your thoughts and your ways. Lead me into your goodness and mercy.

Adapted from Dangers Men Face (NavPress, 1997).


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