Which of the following could you get along fine without over the next 12 months? [all that apply]
A newer vehicle
A different job
A new home theater
A higher profile volunteer job
A larger house
A raise
An upgraded wardrobe
More paraphernalia for my hobby/sport
A promotion
A larger savings account
Grave Secrets Theme for this Week: Caring about Coworkers Monday, March 18, 2002
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March/April 200252Grave SecretsTheme for this Week: Caring about Coworkers Grave Secrets Theme for this Week: Caring about Coworkers Monday, March 18
Key Bible Verse: A gossip goes around revealing secrets, but those who are trustworthy can keep a confidence (Proverbs 11:13). Bonus Reading:Proverbs 16:26; 17:9; 26:20
Every workplace has a person who seems to have the lowdown on everyone else and is willing to tell all. Jim heard that Bob, his supervisor, had been hospitalized for cancer. Jim began telling everyone that Bob would soon be too ill to continue his job. Jim was pushing hard to get Bob's job. It didn't matter to him that Bob made a complete recovery and continued in his job. To the ruthless, lies and half-truths are good weapons.
I recently talked with an attorney who practiced in a small town for more than 60 years. I asked him whether he knew a story on everyone in town. He laughed and said, "I know many stories on everyone in townthings that could ruin people and send them to jail! But I'd never reveal any of it. It'll go to the grave with me." That's the way to handle sensitive information on others. Why hurt them?
[Today's Key Bible Verse] tells us not to be a tale-bearer. This command is not permission to conceal crimes or serious breaches of ethics. Those, of course, should be reported. But if a harmful rumor is flying about a coworker, we can let that rumor stop with us instead of passing it along.
Don Aycock in God's Man
My Response: One time I wish I'd kept my mouth shut was
Thought to Apply: The kindest word in all the world is the unkind word, unsaid. Source unknown
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