

Right in the Kisser! Theme of the Week: Someone to Shape Phil Downer Friday, July 19, 2002
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Right in the Kisser! Theme of the Week: Someone to Shape Friday, July 19
Key Bible Verse: I'm eager to encourage you in your faith, but I also want to be encouraged by yours (Romans 1:12). Bonus Reading:Romans 1:8-11
Don't assume you'll only be called to disciple guys with whom you naturally click. Take Terry. Being in insurance, he didn't think a lot of lawyersand it showed. Terry was late for each of our lunch-break meetings for more than two years. He'd stay with an interested client until the deal was done. It really started to bug me.
But Terry's the guy God chose for me. As we worked through Operation Timothy (Christian Business Men's Committee discipling materials), sharing our lives with one another, we became close friends. During one meeting, Terry broke the news to me that one of his customers, a client of mine, was about to fire me as his lawyer. "It's not your legal work, Phil, it's your temperament," he explained. "They said at times you seem more concerned with your schedule than their case."
Pow! I was being lectured by one of my spiritual children about my old drive-too-hard-toward-the-task-and-forget-about-the-people attitude. Then Terry added, "Phil, I can't find one place in Scripture where Jesus rushed because He was under time pressure or lost His temper because somebody was late." It was an incredible truth!
Phil Downer in Eternal Impact
My Response: A lesson I learned from a guy I thought I was teaching is
Thought to Apply: He who can no longer listen to his brother will soon no longer be listening to God, either.
Dietrich Bonhoeffer (German pastor hanged by Hitler)
Adapted from: Eternal Impact (available from phildowner@dnaministries.org) by permission.
Copyright © 2002 by the author or Christianity Today International/Men of Integrity magazine. Click here for reprint information on Men of Integrity. July/August 2002,Vol. 5,No. 4
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