Puncturing Stereotypes
Theme of the Week: Witnessing That's Not Weird
Tim Downs
Wednesday, June 23, 2004
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Key Bible Verses: I try to find common ground with everyone so that I might bring them to Christ. I do all this to spread the Good News (1 Corinthians 9:22—23). Bonus Reading:1 Corinthians 9:19b—23
I asked some college students to describe an evangelical Christian in the eyes of the average American. Part of the list they came up with: pushy, manipulative, politically conservative, know-it-all, out of touch, no sense of humor …
A non-Christian who believes all Christians are this way will have a hard time hearing the gospel. So the sower must work to break the unbeliever's stereotypes so he'll be able to listen. How?
Don't be pushy or manipulative. Don't feel that every conversation with your neighbor must be turned to spiritual issues.
Don't voice all your political viewpoints. Your co-worker doesn't have to know how you feel about welfare reform, capital punishment, and Rush Limbaugh. Maybe it's better that he doesn't, if you want to talk about God later.
Don't know everything. On some subjects, withhold your opinion. Tell him you're still thinking about it. Ask for his.
Stay in touch. Who won the World Series this year? What was on TV last night? Do you care about anything that he cares about?
Lighten up. Nothing shatters the stereotype of arrogance and stuffiness as fast as the ability to laugh—especially at yourself.
—Tim Downs in Finding Common Ground
My Response: What stereotype do I need to dispel?
Thought to Apply: Love them until they ask us why.
—Joseph Aldrich (educator)
Adapted from Finding Common Ground (Moody, 1999) by permission.
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