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What Respect Claims
Theme of the Week: Why Singles Save Sex
Thursday, September 4, 2008



Key Bible Verse: Don't you realize that your bodies are actually parts of Christ? (1 Corinthians 6:15). Bonus Reading: Proverbs 5:15-16

The essence of God's idea, summoning me to remain a virgin until married, is a call to …

  1. Respect God. I understand that none of his laws are designed to reduce life, but rather to fill it with meaning and to guarantee my long-term interests. So I honor him who first loved me with complete and loving obedience to his call to holiness.

  2. Respect myself. I recognize the worth of my physical being as deserving more than being handled like marketed goods displayed with the virtual signs: "For Sale—cheap" or "Free!—seal broken, handle at your own risk."

  3. Respect my future mate. I won't prematurely open the precious treasure of the deepest intimacies and the beauty of the most wonderful physical delights two people can ever exchange.

  4. Respect Jesus' first claim on my body. Since he is Lord above all, I am committed to giving my all to his purpose for my life and not letting that purpose get diluted or tarnished by compromise. I present him with the highest and best of my devotion and expend my energies only on those things he approves.

—Jack Hayford in Sex and the Single Soul

My Response: Am I willing to commit myself to Jack's four "respects"?

Thought to Apply: Saying yes to God means saying no to things that offend his holiness.  —A. Morgan Derham

Adapted from Sex and the Single Soul (Regal, 2005) by permission.

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0Prayer for the Week

Give me a controlled purpose, Lord, to respect You and the mate You may have in my future.



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