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Mine! How many times a day does a mom hear that? Well, here's something just for you—insight on nurturing your relationships and your spirit, plus a glimpse on the lighter side, too.

"Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him …. " Psalm 37:7

Lord knows I'm all for planning. I lived by the calendar for years, and in some ways had to, anticipating the next fertility doctor appointment, the next ultrasound, the next milestone. But the seven-year "itch" of motherhood has yielded something wonderful: less scratching. Less clawing for the next thing, less pushing for tomorrow, more focusing on today.

The beautiful Psalm 37:7 tells us to be still and wait patiently for God. That statement used to torture me because I don't wait patiently very well. Whether it's the next baby, the next home business, the next sports league or the next Halloween costume, moms spend a lot of time thinking ahead. Some of it is warranted. But much of our mental wandering isn't fruitful. It's just angst, a stirring of the mind that keeps us from leaning on God, and seeing what really matters.

One night last summer I was solo for bedtime, and just about had everyone settled when I came downstairs and saw a fabulous sunset out back. I had a ton to do for the next day. But I went and got my eldest out of bed, and snuggled us in a rocker on the deck. "We're going to see the power of God," I told him as amazing purple-pink swaths of clouds ushered in the night. Be still. Wait patiently for God. Show your kid that he and God matter far more than your to-do list.

Today is a gift. Are you still enough to treat it that way?

A woman can love her husband without always loving her husband's job. Stress, uncertainty and workplace drama are inevitable. But remember, you are your spouse's most important colleague. Supporting him through job challenges and decisions—yes, even when your day with little ones or at work has been exhausting—will enrich your marriage and set a loving example for the little ears and eyes in your home.

• Ask about his day, and mean it. Staying connected about what each of you is doing—without keeping score—helps sculpt a solid relationship.
  
• Listen to what he says, and to what he's really saying. Postpone deeper conversations until your arms are empty and your attention is focused.
  
• Attend functions like the office Christmas party thoughtfully. Don't sink into gossip or repeat anything your husband told you in confidence. Treat everyone with respect, especially your husband. What you think is good-natured teasing may emasculate him around co-workers.
  

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