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What Happened to My Friends?
I didn't realize how deeply marriage would change my other relationships.
By Denise Bowen | posted 9/12/2008
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"Brad and I are best friends, and we love to spend time together. But I've noticed my girlfriends and I have drifted apart."
Her knowing smile warmed me. We began to share our similar experiences and felt an immediate connection.
Brad and I are fortunate that we were able to find a married couple with whom we both connected. It's added an amazing dimension to our marriage.
I've learned that marriage changes the role and dynamics of friendships. I still spend the majority of my time with my best friend, Brad, and we both try to keep up with our single friends, although not as often. While I'm sad to see those relationships grow a bit more distant, I've met new friends who not only provide valuable advice in our walk, but also offer the opportunity to grow in oneness as Brad and I experience friendships together.
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