Subscribe to Christianity Today
Subscribe to Christianity Today

 

Main  |  Archives  |  Contact Us
Site Search

Marriage Community
FREE Newsletter

Advice & Insight
Better Sex
Common Cents
Communication
Emotions
Family Concerns
Health & Home
Help & Healing
Money
Profiles
Spirituality
Soul to Soul
A Marriage Revolution
Resources

From the Experts
24/7
   Gary Chapman
Real Sex
   Michael Sytsma & Debra Taylor
Couple Counsel
   Gary Oliver
The Early Years
   Les & Leslie Parrott
Starting Out
Ever After
   Gary, Greg, & Michael Smalley

Making It Work
Humor & Fun
Romance
MP Workout
Quick Tips
View Point

Profiles
Couples You
  Should Know

He Said … She Said …
Snapshot
Poll
Take the poll


HOLIDAYS & EVENTS
Related Channels
Parenting
Women
Men
Small Groups
Faith in the Workplace





Home > Marriage > Romance > Terms of Engagement


Sign up for our free newsletter:



Terms of Engagement
Read the winning engagement stories from the Best Marriage Proposal contest, cosponsored by Marriage Partnership and Robbins Bros Jewelers.
posted 9/12/2008




ADVERTISEMENT

Some friends and I drove to the camp to get the canoe. And two nights, some spray-painted cardboard trees, and several floating candles later, I was ready to propose.

After a nice dinner, I blindfolded Rebecca and drove her to the YMCA.

I led her inside and took off the blindfold. She couldn't believe what she saw: the canoe floating in the indoor pool, large spray-painted trees, floating candles, and a few dozen friends and family I'd invited for the event. Even some of the staff at the Y stuck around to watch!

We got in the canoe, I paddled out to the center of the "lake," and while trying to balance the boat as I got on one knee, popped the question. She accepted!

On the way back to the edge of the pool, I saw my friends waiting to tip us. So I saved them the trouble. We both got soaked, but at least it wasn't an icy lake!

Nathan and Rebecca VanderMolen
Hometown: Grand Rapids, Michigan
Married: July 4, 2003
Horsing Around

On the day we were celebrating two and a half years of dating, my boyfriend, Jamie, asked me if I wanted to go horseback riding. I was disappointed, because I thought he might be planning something special to celebrate, perhaps an engagement. But I agreed anyway, and we headed to the stable.

After we'd been riding for a while, the trail guide began to lead us through the woods. As we went around a bend in the path, I noticed two red roses hanging in a nearby tree.

I looked at Jamie, but he didn't seem to notice. So I clumsily maneuvered my horse to retrieve them, and discovered another set of roses in a tree farther up the path. I continued on my horse to collect five pairs of roses, each pair attached to a white piece of paper.

We were both laughing as I tried to hold on to thorny roses, papers, and stay on my horse!

After I collected all the roses, we trotted toward a clearing that overlooked the beautiful hills of New York State. My heart was racing as I thought, This is it!

Suddenly the horses were startled by the sound of music—the Hallelujah Chorus! There in the clearing was a table with two chairs and a white tablecloth. On the table were a bouquet of flowers, a vase for the roses, two wine glasses with sparkling grape juice chilling on ice, and an open Bible with another rose on top.

We sat at the table, and I read the papers attached to the roses I'd gathered. In sequence, they formed a poem Jamie had written for me about our relationship.

After I read the poem, he picked up the Bible and read verses from 1 Corinthians 13, the love chapter. As he finished reading, he closed the Bible and handed it to me. On the front was engraved my future married name.




We'd really like to know what you think about this article!
Is this the kind of article you'd like to see more of?
Is there a topic you'd like us to cover?

Please send your suggestions to



Marriage Partnership
Home  |  Archives  |  Contact Us

Try 3 Issues of Christianity Today Free!
Name
Street Address
City/State/Zip
E-mail Address

Subscribe to Christianity Today and get 3 free trial issues. No credit card required.

Please allow 4-6 weeks for delivery. Offer valid in U.S. only.

If you decide you want to keep Christianity Today coming, honor your invoice for just $19.95 and receive nine more issues, a full year in all. If not, simply write "cancel" across the invoice and return it. The three trial issues are yours to keep, regardless.


   RSS Feed   RSS Help









RSS Feed













Free Newsletter
Sign up for the Marriage Newsletter:






ChristianityToday.com
Home CT Mag Church/Ministry Bible/Life Communities Entertainment Schools/Jobs Shopping Free! Help
Books & Culture
Christianity Today
ChristianityTodayLibrary.com
Christian History Back Issues
Church Law & Tax Report
Leadership Journal
Men of Integrity
Your Church
Church Finance Today
BuildingChurchLeaders.com
ChristianBibleStudies.com
Christian College Guide
Christian History
Christian Music Today
Christianity Today Movies
ChurchLawToday.com
Church Products & Services
ChurchSafety.com
ChurchSiteCreator.com
Kyria.com
PreachingToday.com
PreachingTodaySermons.com
ReducingtheRisk.com
Seminary/Grad School Guide
Christianity Today International
www.ChristianityToday.com
Copyright © 2009 Christianity Today International
Privacy Policy | Contact Us | Advertise with Us | Job Openings