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Invite Them into the Kitchen
Even those wary of church can be drawn into God's family.
An interview with Andy Stanley
If ever anyone
was destined to lead a big church, it is Andy Stanley. The son of Charles
Stanley, Andy grew up with firsthand exposure to his dad's ministry
at First Baptist Church of Atlanta.
Early on, it was clear that the younger Stanley had inherited a gift for
communicating. After graduating from Dallas Seminary, he served as youth
pastor at First Baptist for 10 years and had regular opportunities in the
pulpit.
In 1995, Stanley and a handful of others launched North Point Community Church.
Unable to find a permanent meeting place for three years, the church met
every other Sunday evening at different locations. When the 1996 Olympics
came to town, the church couldn't meet for nine weeks because its usual
gathering spots were booked. Still, the church grew. In September 1998, North
Point's 1,500 attenders moved into an impressive, 110,000-square foot
building in Alpharetta, a growing suburb north of Atlanta.
Today, more than 5,000 people attend North Point's two Sunday morning
services and another 2,000-plus singles meet on Tuesday nights.
LEADERSHIP editors Marshall Shelley and Edward Gilbreath visited
North Point to ask Stanley, 41, about preaching to contemporary audiences
comprised of both skittish seekers and mature believers.
A casual observer might assume North Point is rather
homogeneous. Is it?
From time to time people will say about us, "Everybody's white.
Everybody's young." Our church reflects our location.
We aim at two distinct groups: (1) mature believers who are concerned about
evangelism, and (2) people who grew up in church but drifted away. We have
a lot of people who left the church after high school and during college.
Now they're getting married, or they're in their twenties and life
is empty, and they're giving church another try.
How conscious are you of the diverse personal situations represented among
your listeners on Sunday morning?
I'm very aware. I'm a relational person. When a member introduces
me to a visitor and then whispers to me, "You know, he's not a believer"
or "This is the guy I've been trying to get here," I find myself preaching
with them in mind.
How specifically do you address that
person?
I'm not preaching at them, but I feel like I'm sitting at
the table with them. It's an invigorating thing for me because I'm
partnering with our members in reaching that particular person. They may
have spent four or five months trying to get this person here, and what
they're saying is, "Andy, here he is. You'd better deliver."
Is your sermon the pivotal event in the
service?
Not necessarily. I often tell our people, "The sermon starts in the parking
lot. You are the introduction." In other words, if our members haven't
created a positive impression and if they haven't been won in our worship,
by the time I get up there, our visitors have pretty much determined if
they're going to listen or not.
Most people come to church for the first time trying not to like it. They
want three excuses why they don't have to go back. So we do what we
can to disarm that. I tell my pastor friends, "You don't introduce your
sermons; your folks do. And if they're not trained on how to do that,
then you have a problem."
Does this "outsider focus" reflect your
personality?
I'm very involved in relational evangelism. I know what I want the
experience to be like when my friends finally show up. So we'll go to
just about any length to tear down all the walls and to say, "If you're
going to be offended, we want you to be offended by only one thing: the gospel."
After all, that's supposed to be somewhat offensive to a sinner.
But we don't want anyone to be offended by something that happened in
the parking lot, or by some off-the-cuff remark about a social issue. For
instance, we don't allow groups to pass out voter guides, and we discourage
bumper stickers. We chase people out of the parking lots all the time who
are trying to put Christian stuff on people's windshields.
This is about partnering to win souls.
What's the overall strategy at North
Point?
Our church is built around three kinds of environments:
- The foyer environment, where people are made to feel welcome as a guest.
- The living-room environment, where they're treated like a friend.
- And the kitchen environment, where they're made to feel like family.
Everything we do hangs on one of those hooks, or we just don't do it.
The goal is to move people from the foyer to the living room to the kitchen.
Our worship service is a "foyer event." We expect guests. I instruct our
people: "When you have guests in your home, there are certain things you
don't do, certain things you don't talk about. You don't abandon
your belief system when you have guests, but as a gracious host, you know
certain subjects are best left for family or maybe for friends."
Do you avoid "kitchen issues" on Sunday
mornings?
When I am forced by the textwhich I think has to rule in preachingto
talk about "family issues," then I say to our guests, "If you're here
this morning and you're not a Christian, this next part is going to
sound awfully strange to you. In fact, what I'm about to say may be
one of the reasons you don't go to church."
I don't avoid topics, but I let them know that I know how this
might strike them. This gives them permission to say, "Okay, they at least
understand. Maybe we aren't on the same page in terms of what we believe,
but at least they know we're not on the same page."
I don't pull punches, but I qualify a lot of things, because from the
world's perspective, we Christians believe some strange stuff. Sometimes
preachers are not sensitive to that, and so people are afraid to bring their
friends to church because they feel like they have to sit real close and
explain, "Here's what he meant," or they're thinking, I hope
he doesn't talk about that today.
In a sense, then, you are providing a service to assist
members in their evangelizing.
We put it this way: "We want to partner with you in the evangelism process.
You do what you do best; we'll do what we do best. We can present the
message with color, humor, music, video, all the bells and whistles. But
your relationship is the most important part."
We summarize our whole evangelism strategy as "invest and invite." You invest
in a life of an unbeliever, and when they're ready, you invite them
to a "foyer" event. And in that environment they're going to be presented
with the gospel in a relevant way. But then it's back on you as the
inviter to pursue that relationship.
How do you keep this vision before the
congregation?
Every once in a while I mention in a sermon that this church isn't for
everyone: "We don't want any more people who are just coming to take
notes and buy tapes and go home and do nothing." We've tried to position
ourselves for people who want to reach peopleand for the people they are
in the process of reaching.
How do you encourage community in a large-church setting
where most poeple don't know one another?
In every message, I try to celebrate community. We encourage and equip people
to pursue three vital relationships: intimacy with God, community with insiders,
and influence with outsiders. That's our strategy.
But community is not going to happen on Sunday morning in a church this size,
and we don't even try to make it happen there.
Sunday morning is a foyer event; it's only one part of our overall strategy.
Which means preaching is only one part of our overall strategy, but it's
an important part.
What I'm doing on Sunday morning is gathering in all the potential people
who one day can experience community. I bait them through teaching and stories
and through presenting our strategy over and over until they're willing
to take the next step.
One observer said, "What makes pastors of large churches
successful is their ability to project the illusion of
intimacy."
I agree with that, but the word illusion hits me as negative because
it implies insincerity. Some of the more successful large-church pastors
are able to create a sense of intimacy with their congregation because they
have a sincere transparency. They preach from their weakness. And when somebody
preaches from their weakness, you feel like you know them, like you have
something in common. Of course, that's not a genuine relational intimacy,
but there's a clear connection.
I say to pastors all the time, "The advantage of preaching from your weaknesses
is you never run out of material." And it's true. I have the same struggles
everybody else does. I think the ability of a pastor to be able to share
those things is related to his personal security. Typically, the preachers
I've gotten to know who are very guarded in their preaching are that
way off the platform as well.
Lots of planning goes into your servicesmusic, multimedia,
and sermons all work together. So how do you plan your
preaching?
We start with Easter. That's the beginning of the preaching calendar
year because that's when the most people come for the first time. So
we ask ourselves, "What new series can we announce on Easter that's
most likely to bring an Easter visitor back?"
That's likely to be topical. But we also need to balance topical themes
with more directly Bible-oriented material. So we do a Bible-book series
usually toward the end of the year as we head back into Easter.
We think of it in terms of a maturity cycle. It's not perfect. People
pop in and out, but you have to start somewhere. So far it's worked.
How much input from other goes into your
sermons?
I meet every Tuesday with a worship planning team, and I rely heavily on
them for topics.
That's not the model I was brought up with. I was raised with the "go
to the mountain, and God gives you the message" model. There's a place
for that, and there have been times when I've gone in and said, "I feel
like I need to talk about this regardless of what you guys say." But for
the most part, I rely on their input about topics and how long I need to
talk about a certain topic.
When there's a consensus from six other mature Christians who have a
good sense of what's needed in the life of our church, that's helpful.
Where do you get the "hook" for your
sermons?
I always think in terms of relationships, because that's where all the
tension is. Take, for instance, the topic of money. What's the tension
with money? It's a relationship. Everything goes back to some sort of
relationship, either between you and God, or you and another person. With
money, you may resist giving away your money because you fear God may not
take care of you.
You can take any topic and pinpoint where the tension is and how it affects
a person relationally. And when you start talking about that, most of your
audience will connect.
Conventional wisdom would say that money is a "kitchen
topic"; you don't talk about that in the foyer. How did you preach
such a delicate subject to the spectrum of people in your
congregation?
We knew money would be a sensitive subject for unchurched people. It's
one of the smokescreens they throw up. "I don't want to go to church.
All they want is money." So we had to disarm that mentality.
First, we handed out envelopes to everybody in the congregation. Most people
assumed the point was, "Put money in the envelope." But these were sealed
envelopes.
I preached the sermon on the idea that everything in heaven and earth belongs
to God. The point being that we're simply to be stewards of what He's
put on loan to us.
Then I said, "We're going to do stewardship practice. So, I want you
to open your envelope." And they opened their envelopes to find.
money!
We handed out $37,000 in fives, tens and twenties.
Suddenly, all the tension was gone. It was, "They gave me money!" Now they
couldn't be mad at me anymore as the pastor. What can you say if we
give you money?
Also in the envelope was a little green card that said: "I'm going to
invest in God's kingdom by.
" Their assignment was to take the
money and invest it in God's kingdom outside this church. They
couldn't give it back to us. We asked them to turn in their cards and
write on them, "Here's how I invested it in God's kingdom." This
was stewardship practice. They got to practice on us.
We got thousands of the cards back. I'd estimate the $37,000 became
a half-million dollars because of what people added and gave to a kingdom
cause. And the stories are remarkable. Now, every Sunday, I get up and read
a letter from a member about how $5 became $500.
So, the issue isn't so much the topic as the way the
topic is presented.
There's no topic we can't talk about. We just have to take into
consideration what the immediate negatives are. How do we disarm people?
How do we do it in an authentic way?
The great communication issue for a pastor is NOT just about what I want
them to know and what do I want them to do. That's the summary. The
question that great communicators answer is, "Why do you need to know this?"
Most of the time, the Bible answers the question why. I can talk to a lost
person about anything if I will spend my time studying and answering the
question "Why would God say such a ridiculous thing as that?"
Most times, the answer is, "Because He's a good God and He loves you,
and He wants what's best for you. You don't have to do it, but
He's not just up there making stuff up."
The heavier the topic, the clearer I have to be on the why behind the what.
We hear about the shorter attention spans of the contemporary
audiences, that this A.D.D. generation can't handle more than 15 or 20 minutes
of preaching. Yet you typically preach for more than a
half-hour.
My dad preaches an hour, and they can't get everybody in fast enough.
The attention span thing is a myth.
We've all listened to communicators, and, number one, we couldn't
believe the time went by that fast and, number two, we wish they wouldn't
stop because they're great communicators. It has nothing to do with
attention span. It has to do with the environment, the type of chair you're
sitting on, what happened before, what your expectations are, the interest,
the content, the visuals, the pace.
We have to be as clear as MUDmemorable, understandable, and do-able. Can
they remember something? Do they understand it? Can they do it?
Most of the time that means the preacher should just make one point, communicate
one thing well.
What do you assume is familiar or unfamiliar to your
audience?
I'm married, I have three young children, and I'm extremely busy.
And that's pretty much my target audiencepeople who are busy and trying
to be good parents and have too many things to do.
You usually use a visual aid in your preaching. Do
today's audiences need props?
I want to communicate at every level. There are auditory learners and visual
learners. There are people who learn by talking. There are multiple levels,
and I want maximum impact. So whether it's props or songs or illustrations
or humor, I want to do whatever it takes to get the message across.
We're about to start a series called "Character Under Construction."
We're going to turn the whole campus into a construction sitenot just
the stage, but everything. We're putting trailers and porta-johns outside.
All of our hosting people are going to wear hard hats and tool belts to reinforce
the idea that we are God's construction sites. The entire church will
be a visual aid.
How much of your effort to preach today's listeners is
a matter of style as opposed to content?
In general, it's the style we use that gets people's attention.
The method is what draws the crowd. The joke around here is we'd have
a bigger problem if we changed our music than if we changed our doctrine.
We can change our doctrine, and a few people would get upset and leave. But
if we changed the music, we'd split the church. So, the method of
communication takes precedence over content in terms of audience appeal.
I don't think that's a good thing, but it would be hard to argue
that that's not the case.
So just presenting the truth is not enough to connect
with contemporary audiences.
I talk to pastors sometimes who rationalize their church's lack of growth
by saying, "I'm just preaching the truth. If they don't like it,
that's too bad." But we're supposed to be a little more proactive
than that. That would be like a salesman saying, "Well, you know, I made
a few calls, but they just don't want to buy my product." That guy
wouldn't keep his job very long.
Preaching today should be less about defending the truth and more about applying
the truth.
For ages, preachers have struggled to walk the fine line
between wholeness ("God loves you just the way you are") and holiness ("but
he loves you too much to leave you that way"). How do you balance those
two themes in a seeker-sensitive setting?
That was the brilliance of Jesus' ministry: he didn't try to balance
those two extremes. He took them both and brought them together. That's
the task we have as the body of Christ. We should reflect that paradox. We
shouldn't try to find where we are on a continuum. We need to go to
both ends, both extremes, and say, "You are fully accepted, but compared
to the standard, you have a long way to go."
There's always the temptation in preaching to compromise at one end
because you might lose somebody, or to make this sin worse than it
actually is compared to other sins. But that's our challenge as preachers
of the gospel.
Originally published in Leadership journal, January 1, 2000.
Copyright © 2000 by the author or Christianity Today International/Leadership Journal.
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