Home > Today's Christian
> The Single Life
> Friendship
Talking Dirty
My roommate often swears in God's name. Is there a Bible verse I can show him that says we shouldn't curse like that—or at all?
By Christin Ditchfield
 1 of 1
Q. My roommate often swears in God's name—"God-this" and "God-that." When I tell him it's wrong, he challenges me to prove it. Is there a verse in the Bible I could show him that says we shouldn't curse like that—or at all?
—Tim Wink, via e-mail
A. Unfortunately, Tim, the use of profanity and crude language has become prevalent in today's culture. Words once considered off limits are now commonplace on the radio, tv, and especially in movies. They come glibly tripping off the tongues of the most influential people of our day. It's no wonder your roommate doesn't think anything of it.
The verse you're looking for is one of the Ten Commandments: "Thou shalt not take the name of the lord thy God in vain" (Ex. 20:7, KJV). Contemporary translations say not to misuse God's name, speaking it "lightly" or "frivolously" or "profanely."
Misusing God's name can mean anything from swearing to blaspheming to making a mockery of it—attributing words and actions and attitudes to God that are not His. There are plenty of other verses that forbid the use of profanity in general, including Ephesians 5:3-4: "But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk, or coarse joking, which are out of place …" Instead, we're told: "Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone" (Col. 4:5-7).
You don't say whether or not your roommate is a Christian and feels any obligation at all to live his life to please God. If he isn't—and if he doesn't—preaching at him isn't likely to convince him to clean up his language. All you can do is calmly, respectfully share with him why it's important to you to honor God with your own speech, and why it troubles you to hear profanity spoken in your home. Ultimately it's up to you to determine whether God is calling you to room with him in an effort to be a positive influence in his life, or whether his negative influence on you is such that you need to look for a new roommate (Rom.12:18).
Christin Ditchfield is the host of the syndicated radio program Take It to Heart, and author of The Three Wise Women: A Christmas Reflection (Crossway).
Looking for answers? Send your questions to
Everyday Theology,
Today's Christian,
465 Gundersen Drive,
Carol Stream, IL 60188, or to tceditor@todays-christian.com. If we use your questions, you'll receive a free copy of Christin's latest book, Take It to Heart: 60 Meditations on God and His Word, compliments of Crossway Books.
Copyright © 2007 by the author or Christianity Today International/Today's Christian magazine.
Click here for reprint information. 1 of 1
Browse More Today's Christian
Home | People of Faith | Stories of Hope | Today's Culture
Build Your Faith | Laughing Matters | Archives | Contact Us
 |
|
 |
|
|
|
|
Try Today's Christian Woman Free!
|
 |
|
No credit card required. Please allow 4-6 weeks for delivery. Offer valid in U.S. only.
If you decide you want to keep Today's Christian Woman coming, honor your invoice for just $17.95 and receive five more issues, a full year in all. If not, simply write "cancel" across the invoice and return it. The trial issue is yours to keep, regardless.
Give Today's Christian Woman as a gift
Order a gift subscription!
|
|
|
|
|
|
 |
|
 |
| |
|
