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3 ways to practice compassion in the land of comfort and convenience

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Rushing out of my local grocery store parking lot, I check my watch. I'm running late; I have 5 minutes to drive a distance that requires 15. While calculating whether I can make it through a yellow light, I spot a thin, weathered man standing on the median. Without enough time to accelerate past or enough space to switch lanes, I reluctantly pull up beside him.

Before I even read his cardboard sign, my pulse quickens with trepidation. Should I look at him? Should I roll down the window? Should I offer him food? No matter what response I choose, I'm uncomfortable with the whole situation. Yet I'm beginning to suspect my discomfort may be a sort of holy invitation.

Like many middle-class, suburban women, I'm often insulated from a world in need. When famine strikes in Africa, my supermarket's shelves remain stocked. When chaos erupts in the Middle East, my neighborhood stays secure. When floodwaters rise in New Orleans, my home keeps dry. Without concerted effort, the closest I may ever get to a needy person is the unsettling intrusion of the man on the median.

Still, I hunger to share Christ's care with those he loves. Jesus challenged his disciples, "Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful" (Luke 6:36). Because Jesus responded to his Father's voice, God more than likely directed Jesus' gaze toward individuals in need of his merciful touch. We imitate Jesus when we, too, notice the needs around us, respond with compassionate action, and foster a genuine connection. Here's how to do these things in your neighborhood.

Pay Attention

A large crowd was gathered in front of the local Catholic Social Services office when my children and I drove by on the way to school one morning. I explained to my kids people were lined up to get help paying their rent. A little five-year-old voice piped up from the backseat, "Can we pray for dem?" My son's heart, sensitive to the Spirit's nudge, responded to others' needs.

"Most people dismiss these promptings as foolish," explains Bruce Main, author of Holy Hunches: Responding to the Promptings of God. Main calls these inner cues "holy impulses" or "divine hunches." Main explains, "What actually moves people into acts of service, acts of justice, acts of compassion, is this intuitive sense" that prompts five-year-old lips to pray for the poor while hurrying off to school. Main underscores, "It is not enough to have our hearts fill with compassion or empathy for others. We really need to convert these feelings into an appropriate response." Our faithful response springs from noticing what moves God's heart.

Scripture boldly articulates God's concern for the weak and his passion for justice. We see these twin concerns embodied in the One who announced his ministry with words of justice: "The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to release the oppressed, to proclaim the year of the Lord's favor" (Luke 4:18-19).

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Sandra Posted: June 13, 2008 4:23 PM
I absolutely LOVE this article! My husband and I are very active in the community through our Church. We do volunteer at a local soup kitchen to serve our brothers and sisters in need. We participate in fundraiser walks, we donate much of your time and money to acts of kindness and works of mercy. Unfortunately, some of his family (whom are not the same religious denomination as we are) have made some rude and hurtful comments about how we can't get to heaven by "good works". For some reason they are of the opinion that we think "good works" alone will get us into heaven and nothing could be further from the truth. I do not where they get that thinking and why they feel that way or where they have heard this but many in our Church admit that they have heard the same critical statements. So THANK YOU for this article! It reflect exactly what my husband and I feel and what we try to do on a daily basis throughout our day! God bless!

sylvia smith Posted: June 12, 2008 8:41 AM
your articles are an inspiration to me each morning. they lift me up, and my day goes even better. thanks

Marian Posted: June 13, 2008 7:55 PM
Excellent article! All I can add is "AMEN!"


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