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Duty and Desire: The Best Hope for Our Children's Education

Duty and Desire: The Best Hope for Our Children's Education

What kind of school our children attend is far less important than what kind of people they are shaped into

There are very few absolutes in this life. What kind of school our children attend is not one of them.

Home schools, private schools of kinds, public schools, each in their different ways are places where good parents hope for a good education, knowing that at the end of the day they are responsible for teaching their children to love God and his world. We have chosen all three along the way, raising our five children, and each one has blessings and curses. None is a tragic choice, but none are perfect choices either.

Almost 25 years ago, we were involved in the beginning of a private school called Rivendell. Eventually all of our children went there, and graduated at eighth grade. Born of an entrepreneurial hope for a different kind of education, the little community of parents who brought it into being worked very hard for many years to create an educational culture that prized a creative, responsible learning. A literature-based curriculum focused on thematic study was its heart, along with a requirement that parents actively involve themselves in the week-by-week life of the school.

Committed to teaching our children to "learn about God's world and to discover their place in it," we were a family, with all the good and bad stories of families everywhere. But when all was said and done, we wanted our children to learn to learn, and to love learning.

When our children finished at Rivendell, we searched the city of Washington for something similar, and found nothing that satisfied. Eventually, intrigued by the more personal pedagogy of private schools, we entered into the life of St. Stephen's and St. Agnes School, an Episcopal day school in Alexandria.

From our first conversations with the headmaster we knew that the school was sympathetic to transcendence, but did not believe in truth. A hard judgment, perhaps, but knowing that to be true kept us from expecting the school to be something other than what it was. What it was was its own gift to our children. A small school with small classes, it offered them an opportunity to know their teachers as they were learning within the disciplines of a demanding curriculum. That is never small.

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Hannah

April 13, 2012  5:34pm

I am enjoying these various reflections on different types of schooling from a Christian perspective. I would love to read about a Christian school that is part of one of the older traditions of Christian schooling, for instance the Christian Reformed Church Schools, and what they've learned about Christian education over the years. There are many different kinds of Christian schools, and the stories here so far have mostly focused on fairly new, nondenominational Christian schools. Keep the great stories coming!

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