
Why Christians Can Raise Kids Anywhere: A Response to Kathy Keller

Which brings me to a final point about Keller's unfettered praise of city life: Clearly her family wasn't living in West Harlem or sending their kids to one of New York City's at-risk schools. They could afford to live in "better" neighborhoods, to get grocery delivery, to enrich their children's lives with all the cultural offerings, most of which cost money—lots of it. It's easy to romanticize city life when you can pay for a first-class urban experience; less so when you can afford only section 8 housing and spend your food stamps at corner stores that specialize in cola and candy but not produce. Jesus' followers belong in those places, too, but there are no "shoulds" about it.
Or maybe there's just one: You should love God and your neighbor, wherever you are.
Rachel Stone is a regular contributor to Her.meneutics. She blogs at Eat with Joy.

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Janice
I think it errs on the side of gimmicky to title Kathy's article as such, and then publish a response against it, as if there is a conflict or debate. It's a poor framing of Kathy's article, and her intention behind it, which to me comes through clearly in the article.
Rhys Scott
Thanks for your response, Rachel. You commented by tweet that the point in your article is that anywhere we live is good for mission, and that being in a city is not necessary for this. While I agree with you, I think this is only half the truth. Mission involves people, and Christians should therefore consider living in cities, where large groups of unreached people are gathered together. Christians have tended to leave the cities to bring up families in recent decades, and this has significantly impacted the spread of the Gospel in western cities and therefore on prevailing culture. The New Testament shows us the inauguration of the church happened in Jerusalem, and spread to Samaria and Antioch. From there Paul went from city to city to city, to the extent that he claimed he had 'fully proclaimed the gospel' across Asia. While my wife and I might naturally prefer to live in the country, our conviction that we need to see churches planted in cities has shaped our life decisions.
Kara
I am grateful for this article. And even more so for Kathy Keller's. God has called my family, with three small children, to a city of 5 million in Russia. Kathy's article make my heart glad, with the affirmation that is very lacking for most of us who are called away from the suburban American life into something much denser. When I read Kathy's article, I had no sense of her trying to tell people they were doing something wrong to not live in the city. Rather, it was an encouragement to me who has been called to something different. Thank you, Katelyn Beaty, for your comment (#3) that is so refreshing to hear. Perhaps the title was the reason so many people reacted angrily to Kathy's article. And thank you to the whole This is Our City team for so many articles about what God is doing in and among city-dwellers.
Tim L
Living here in a poor neighborhood (certainly not among the poorest) of Delhi with my wife and children and grandchildren, it seems that a missing factor in these discussions may be that we are to live for Kingdom calling and purposes wherever we live. If we can pass on that legacy to our children and grandchildren, we will have done well.
Ryan
As a country-boy gone city-dweller gone smallish town-dweller I have to say that I resonate with both articles. I think city-dwellers could stand to get out in the fresh air and experience God there. I also think country people could learn to appreciate the cultural diversity found in the larger cities. I now live in a city of about 50,000 people in Florida where diversity means that there are a lot of old white people and a lot of young white people. I miss my experiences in Chicago and DC where I could be surrounded by five or six different nationalities in a local coffee shop. I also miss my experiences in rural Virginia where I knew every person in my high school. Here I can be in the middle of the swamp in 10 minutes or making Meals on Wheels deliveries in 10 minutes the other direction...and I suspect someday if I move away I'll miss that too.
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