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My Perfect Life with Anorexia


Aug 31 2012
And how God saved me from it.

My Perfect Life with Anorexia

The first time I admitted to myself that I had an eating disorder, I was eating raw spinach straight out of the container. As I wondered how many calories it contained—10, to be precise—and how long I would have run in order to "undo" my meal, it occurred ...

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A New Image of Friendship for the 30-Something Set


Aug 30 2012
I'm no longer looking for a sole BFF, but for sustained relationships that take years, even a lifetime, to cultivate well.

A New Image of Friendship for the 30-Something Set

It was pouring rain, and my hands were full as I stumbled into the room. The last thing on my mind was meeting and greeting the other writers at the wine-tasting reception. I plopped into the first free chair, muttering unpleasant things under my breath, when ...

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In the Wake of Suicide's Silence: Why Blame Is Never the Answer


Aug 29 2012
After my own brother's suicide 15 years ago, I should know that locating blame is so often futile.

In the Wake of Suicide's Silence: Why Blame Is Never the Answer

I received the fateful call almost 15 years ago. My husband and I, then married little more than a year, were winding our way out of rural Ohio, where we had spent the weekend celebrating the wedding of friends. My phone rang. It was my mother.

"Your brother is ...

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What Not to Say to a Pregnant Woman


Aug 28 2012
It's as if pregnant women walk around wearing sandwich boards that read, "Touch me. Say whatever you want. No, really."

What Not to Say to a Pregnant Woman

A woman's body pays a heavy price to carry and deliver a baby. That's what my doctors say and what I've twice experienced. During the first half of each of my pregnancies, I was so nauseated I could barely function, even with anti-nausea medication during the ...

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Big Business and the Sacred Mystery of Sleep


Aug 27 2012
What our sleeping habits reveal about our relationship with God.

Big Business and the Sacred Mystery of Sleep

A recent Time article pointed enterprising readers toward an enticing business opportunity for our age: the sleep industry. "Don't nap on this," the headline urged. "Capitalize on insomnia as a growth business." Our desperately sleep-deprived population is a market ...

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What Can't You Surrender to God? A Conversation with Jennie Allen


Aug 24 2012
The 35-year-old mother of four writes about fear, insecurity, and the prayer that upended her life.

What Can't You Surrender to God? A Conversation with Jennie Allen

She stood in front of a crowded room of young women eager to hear her speak. Unbeknownst to the crowd, Jennie Allen was gripped with fear. All she could think of was how she was being perceived and the waves of criticism that would supposedly come following her ...

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Why We Love, and Hate, 'Honey Boo Boo'


Aug 23 2012
The new reality show's popularity reveals our cultural weariness and hunger for something more.

Why We Love, and Hate, 'Honey Boo Boo'

Perusing magazines in the grocery checkout line recently, screaming headlines promised all the gritty details about:

  1. The Secretary of State "dirty dancing" with another woman;
  2. (2) Reality show Teen Moms "star" admits to drug abuse in a "tell all" interview; and
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Are Infants Sinful? How Not to Talk about Original Sin


Aug 22 2012
There are better ways to explain human fallenness than pointing to needy babies and clumsy toddlers.

Are Infants Sinful? How Not to Talk about Original Sin

Before going to seminary and then having children, I worked in youth ministry with teenagers for five years. As such, I sat through countless systematic presentations of the gospel in which someone was assigned "the sin talk." These talks varied from camp to camp ...

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Why Friends Disappear When You Reach Midlife


Aug 21 2012
Why loneliness can plague women in their 50s.

Why Friends Disappear When You Reach Midlife

I thought we were friends.

At midlife I learned that I might have overstated some of these relationships a tad. It seemed that my BFFs had really been church and parenting co-workers.

Inspirational speaker Barbara Bartocci parsed the difference, noting, "People ...

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Love Your Neighbor. Get Your Vaccines.


Aug 20 2012
How getting routine shots benefits not just you but your entire community.

Love Your Neighbor. Get Your Vaccines.

A few days ago, my 4-year-old got three injections in his suntanned, still baby-dimpled arms. I read over the warnings, signed my approval, and held him as he set his little face, determined to be brave, then cried when he felt the pinch. Yesterday, my husband ...

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The 'Just You Wait' Mantra: Is Marriage Really That Hard?


Aug 17 2012
My husband and I have encountered much gloom and doom about marriage from older Christian couples. What gives?

The 'Just You Wait' Mantra: Is Marriage Really That Hard?

Around this time three years ago, I was busy preparing for one of the biggest days of my life. My wedding was just around the corner, so my schedule was filled with RSVPs, last-minute dress alterations, music selections, and table seating assignments. I was excited ...

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Women Speak Up and Out at Willow Creek's Global Leadership Summit


Aug 16 2012
Condi Rice, Sheryl WuDunn, and IJM's Pranitha Timothy showed me that women can achieve enormous influence outside the walls of the church.

Women Speak Up and Out at Willow Creek's Global Leadership Summit

Many things caught my attention last week at Willow Creek's Global Leadership Summit, but nothing as strikingly as the women in attendance—both on stage and off. Speakers included former Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist ...

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Debunking the 'Homewrecker' Myth after Kristen Stewart's Affair


Aug 15 2012
There's no such thing as 'the other woman' who acts completely alone.

Debunking the 'Homewrecker' Myth after Kristen Stewart's Affair

Among classic literature's great seductresses—Becky Sharp, Lady Chatterley, Anna Karenina, and Madame Bovary—the most irresistible of them all just might be Katie Scarlett O'Hara, the vivacious and impetuous protagonist in Margaret Mitchell's American ...

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The Cynicism Trap: Why Trusting Fellow Christians Is a Spiritual Discipline


Aug 14 2012
Even when our fellow Christians fail morally.

The Cynicism Trap: Why Trusting Fellow Christians Is a Spiritual Discipline

Love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. And suspicion?

The fruits of the Spirit included on this list should look pretty familiar to anyone who has spent time in a church. So should the final item—even though ...

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Lusting After Asparagus?: Our Culture's Food Porn Problem


Aug 13 2012
What's wrong with ogling beautifully shot images of filet mignon and other rich foods? A lot, actually.

Lusting After Asparagus?: Our Culture's Food Porn Problem

The Old Testament book Song of Songs is pretty racy. And not infrequently, its sexual imagery is expressed through food metaphors:

As an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. With great delight I sat in his shadow, and ...

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