Yesterday I woke up, went for a run, ate breakfast, then started my daily routine of work, household chores, and writing. To spice things up, I had lunch with a friend, who gave me a special tour of the hospital where she works. That was the most eventful part of my day. Besides the lunch date, I will probably do the exact same thing tomorrow. It's nothing too remarkable or profound. It's just my ordinary life. Or is it?
In a recent article in The New York Times, Alina Tugend asks the same question. Contemplating the accolades of her own children, the NYT columnist writes,
"I wonder if there is any room for the ordinary any more, for the child or teenager—or adult—who enjoys a pickup basketball game but is far from Olympic material, who will be a good citizen but won't set the world on fire."
She notes that for some "in this world, an ordinary life has become synonymous with a meaningless life." These days, success is measured by the extraordinary rather than the mere faithful or honest. As Tugend says, "we have a need to be exceptional." And she wonders if this is all a good thing. We can't all be the next innovative inventor, best-selling author, or Olympic medalist. The reality is that most of us will live our lives in the routine and mundane.
This is true as much for Christians as it is for everyone else—a good lot of us will not accomplish the extraordinary or supernatural in this life. Yet we are tempted to feel like we aren't doing enough for Jesus unless we are saving African villages, writing inspirational books, leading a church with a massive membership roll, or adopting children from Haiti. We tend to measure success in the currency of adventurous mission trips, large ministry followings, and educational accolades. And we can feel like our life is fairly insignificant if much of our time is spent changing dirty diapers, teaching the same students every day, or working a fairly boring job. In a time when many, including well-known evangelicals, build a platform around living a "life with impact," "changing the world," and "making a difference"—which they announce through blogging and Twitter feeds—we're tempted to view the routines and ruts of everyday life with derision.
The desire for the special and the spectacular is rooted in a good seed: Deep down we want to believe that we have worth and value. We want to know that our lives are making a difference. That's not all bad. In fact, it's precisely because we are special that we desire these very things. But we are special not because we possess a worthiness of our own, but because we image the special One—our Creator. He created us to reflect his glory to a watching world. Every job we do, every gift we possess, and every seemingly mundane task we complete faithfully is all part of our reflecting his creative majesty. And every life is necessary in God's economy. This is what gives us significance and meaning, regardless of the tangible outcomes of our efforts.
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Joselyn Burchfield
The sun rises and sets everywhere and each sunrise and sunset are unique. Often, they go unnoticed. But God still does it.
Vallie Franz
As Christians, our understanding of glory and success must be rooted in our identity in this Christ.
Anthony Lightfoot
which they announce through blogging and Twitter feedswere tempted to view the routines and ruts of everyday life with derision.
Mary
I remember when our kids used to become angry with each other and say to their friends, "I won't invite you to my birthday party". It was so hurtful...I grew up expecting to change the world...and now that I'm in my sixties...I'm actually a bit worried that hardly anyone will come to my funeral...partly because we've lived so many places around the world...and partly because...oh, I don't know...maybe because, I've kind of moved on from places of influence. So, now...the most hurtful jibe would be, "I won't show up to your funeral", or "no one will care to read about all your exploits, or be around to remember or write about them". Yikes!
JANE HINRICHS
But I would add I do not like the headline at all. Maybe it should be something like "Find God in the Mundane" or "A Mundane Life is a Blessed Life." The one that is presently there is wrong -- we all are special because we each have been created by Almighty God. For that reason alone we are priceless.
JANE HINRICHS
I loved Aja's comments too! If you didn't read Aja's comments go back and read them. Beautiful. And this post is beautiful too. For the ones who took offense to it, it isn't condemning success, but just thinking about the dailiness of our lives. I've been thinking about this a lot too. I just asked my husband, "What am I really good at?" And he said, "You're a great mom." That really wasn't what I wanted to hear at the time (though it is one of the best things a mom can hear). The "mundane" things of life are more God-like I think than many things. Think about it -- think about how God does the same things day in and day out and does them so creatively. The sun rises and sets everywhere and each sunrise and sunset are unique. Often, they go unnoticed. But God still does it. God just does it because He is the Creator and finds joy in the act of creating (plus, He loves us so much). And think He gives us the right amount of oxygen in the air, the right amount of every element so we can breathe. That is mundane and always a constant (like dirty laundry and dishes are at my house), but God still does it with great love even though we don't notice it much of the time. Our daily lives resemble God's work much more than the "Big" moments do. Something to think about anyway.
c k weaver
I really enjoyed the article. I hope not being a woman doesn't get me shut out here. I am retirement age and still struggle with the feeling I am to do something, maybe not extraordinary, but significant. I have no idea what it is, but I feel at the right time it will be revealed to me. In the meantime I try to be content with the mundane. I do believe however we are all special in Gods eyes if only to the extent each of us is unique. Perhaps you are a uniquely good parent, spouse, organizer, a writer of blogs, beautician, or whatever. I think God intended for us while living in the mundane, to utilize our unique selves to the fullest capacity. I remember as teenager at my first job there was this one person who had a job that was not only mundane but grossly dirty, yet he always seemed to be smiling, or humming, and always in a good mood. To me that was his uniqueness. It made an impression on me and probably influenced how I live my life. I think it was the Apostle Paul who said with all situations therewith learn to be content. In truth we never know how or when God is using us, or whose life we have touched and made a little better just by being yourself. I have been blessed to have had a couple of people tell me years later how much something I had done or said meant to them, and I had no idea at the time I had done anything. One final comment: I think this need to be extraordinary is because we believe success and happiness are a result of our material accomplishments, when we should be more concerned with our spiritual development. In this fast paced world where my car or my kid is better than yours, has made material things gods we have before Him. Suppose I told you on several occasions God spoke to me in a dream, you would probably tell the authorities I was a danger to myself or others and should be evaluated. Two thousand or so years ago, perhaps even up until the industrial revolution, it was acceptable for people to talk that way on occasion; because the spiritual life was more important than the material life. Could it be part of the reason we resent the mundane is because we have our priorities wrong.
jason taylor
Is there some problem with Chinese and Indians rising to the top of the world? At least Chinese are potential political rivals. What's wrong with Indians rising to the top of the world? Do successful Indians somehow make us less prosperous and secure? Are we now, instead of listening to the article, to make the same mistake on a nationalistic level?
Just Karen
I don't think the intention is to say "Don't go to college, it's a waste of time" or "Don't improve yourself". It's to say "Don't expect to be a special little snowflake" and "Try to excel, but don't worry if you fail", a pair of sentiments I mostly agree with - too many people expect way too much from their degree (my wife has one that she calls useless; she's now working quite successfully by our measure in a completely different field) Not that I have much room to talk, I'm an extremely unique individual (as I'm sure most of you could have guessed), with both blessings and issues in abundance. I think I'm making the most of what I've been given, though sometimes I wish I could do something more impressive.
J Macy
Great post.
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