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How to Deal with Insensitive Christians

Why saying "thank you" instead of "how dare you" is a gospel witness.

I cringe a little whenever I hear a sideline reporter interview an athlete after a crushing loss—which happened a lot during the Olympics. When the heavy favorite underperformed or simply didn't medal, the reporter asked questions like this, in an attempt to get the athlete to say something worthy of Sports Center:

"You came in as the favorite tonight but seemed to struggle all night. What happened?"

The athlete, trying to be gracious (and avoid a frustrated response), usually responded quickly before cutting the conversation short.

Similarly, in the wake of tragedies like Hurricane Sandy, we watch news media assemble in devastated areas, trying to tell the victims' stories to a watching nation. We see the weeping grandmother trying to recover what's left of her home with a microphone in her face. While the reporters presumably mean well, they don't always give people the space needed when their world is falling apart.

I once heard someone say that she refrained from asking her infertile ...

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