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I was standing in the kitchen, talking to my husband, when he began to yawn. As most wives would, I teased him for his insensitivity. He replied, "I'm just being authentic."
In case you haven't noticed, the "authentic" label is not just for antiquities or ethnic restaurants anymore.
One Thousand Gifts author Ann Voskamp recently posted on her blog: "I have felt it—how no one wants anything of anyone but to be honest and real and to trust enough to take off the mask."
I have felt it, too.
I am neither 20-something nor the least bit trendy. Still, authenticity has worked its way into my conservative evangelical life, making a regular appearance in my conversations with fellow Christians.
Chances are you know someone who's blogging or talking about being authentic: authentic life, authentic relationships, authentic community, authentic worship.
Christianity Today's website designates "Authenticity" as one topic to classify its articles. Amazon.com sells more than 100 books under the search term "authentic Christian."
Authentic is one of those slippery, know-it-when-you-see-it buzzwords. When I queried Andy Crouch, CT editor at large and author of Culture Making, about the word's origins, he pointed me author Keith Miller. "His 1984 book The Taste of New Wine was a best-selling Christian distillation of both 1970s encounter groups and AA-style spirituality. I'm pretty sure his work was the catalyst by which authenticity became a specifically Christian aspiration."
So authenticity is transparency and admission of failure. It's the rejection of pretense and hypocrisy. It's truth-telling about all areas of life.
I believe Christians can do authenticity best. We serve a God who is always truthful. Never lies. Never deceives. Has, in fact, defeated the Father of Lies. But I fear that without biblical thought, we may accept an inferior and postmodern version of tell-all, tolerate-all authenticity.
So, I propose five principles for being an authentic Christian.
(1) Authenticity proclaims the reality of the Bible.
In Numbers 13, God commands Moses to send 12 spies into the land of Canaan. Forty days later, they come back with fruit and a report.
Ten of the men tell it like they see it: fortified cities, strong people, and a fear of being squashed like bugs. Two of the men tell it like God sees it: "Let us go up at once and take possession for we are well able to overcome it."

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Micah Keegan
I am neither 20-something nor the least bit trendy. Still, authenticity has worked its way into my conservative evangelical life, making a regular appearance in my conversations with fellow Christians.
Natalie Hart
Thank you for this. It's easy to fall into the trap of complaining or even one-upping each other on our frustrations to seem less "perfect," but that can turn into a mask, into an inauthentic performance all its own. What a wonderful reminder that it is as authentic for us as Christians to praise God and speak wisdom as it is to share failings and frustrations.
Nancy Franson
What a thoughtful write, Miss Megan! I recently read another post which raised some similar thoughts, including this one: Being authentic means that we not only tell the truth about the hard things in our lives, but also about the joy we experience by God's grace. That point led me to think about the Psalms in which David (and others) give voice to the entire range of human emotions and, in so doing, point to Christ and his redemptive work. During a recent conversation, someone asked me about the kinds of stories I tell when I write and whether I consider them cautionary tales or stories of hope. The question stopped me in my tracks. I've jokingly said that the point of my life--my authentic, mask-revealed self--is to serve as a caution to others. But there really does need to be more to it than that, doesn't there? I need always to be pointing toward hope--toward the source of all hope.
Basil
Sadly the word 'Authentic' becomes a marketing gimmick to get more people to come to a particular church. Often in my observations of new or growing churches (often contemporary) there is a tendency to label them as such. Authenticity transcends worship styles and theological approaches. No church can guarantee that its congregation is 35% hypocrisy free as compared to other churches. Authenticity cannot be something guaranteed or enforced in any given church. If it is then it becomes hypocrisy.
Tim
DianneA, I agree that there are a lot of people who will say their understanding of God is influenced by the Bible but also influenced by other sources. Why those other sources are considered trustworthy is beyond me, though. People have been promoting such sources from the time of the apostles, and John (among other apostles) was combatting those people pretty much with his dying breath. (1 John is a good example of an apostle warning fellow Christians not to listen to people who say they have something new to say about God.) Just because we've supposedly entered a post-modern age doesn't mean anyone is really able to come up with a new understanding about God. Blessings, Tim
Dianne Adams
Rachel - even, The Bible isn't Jesus. Or God. The Bible points to God; other things do, to. You may have misunderstood progressive or post-modern Christians whose perceptions of God are influenced by the Bible, but not limited to it. Judgmental attitudes and mis-characterizations can make authentic communication with other believers difficult. If you really do wonder 'where they are actually getting their info,' you should ask. If you don't wonder, it's probably time for some introspection.
Jessica Thomas
Good list. Focusing on being "authentic" and placing that as a highest virtue could easily lead someone to become to "me" focused. That's probably why I cringed a bit as I was reading the first half of your post...a bit afraid of where it might go, but I like your perspective on the matter.
rachel - even one sparrow
Wow, what a GREAT list. I completely agree. I especially appreciate you listing (2) Authenticity doesnt excuse sin. In our postmodern America, "authentic" Christianity has become sort of watered down in some areas. I know a lot of people who do not define sin according to the Bible, or who use the Bible as sort of a generally good book. A lot of people say they want to know the REAL God, the REAL Jesus, and that this Jesus cannot be found in the Bible (where they are actually getting their info on Jesus, then, is beyond me). To excuse sin, to redefine it, to toss away the Bible in favor of "authenticity" is just a cover for saying you want to follow your own ways under the blanket of "cool Christianity." It's a dangerous -- yet increasingly more easy -- path to choose. Thank you for calling it out here.
Jen
Authenticity has no real value without purpose. I have no desire to read someone else's diary, to know their every thought. But authenticity for growth or wisdom or truth is meaningful to me. I love the distinction that is made about sharing other's sins. We need to listen and give or receive wise counsel but there is a line.
Stan Guthrie
"But the godly life is not merely a pooling of experiences; it is the confident application of Gods truth to individual circumstances." AMEN! Great post - Thanks for sharing.
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