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Real Women Don't Text Back: How Women Fuel the Man-Boy Problem


Jan 25 2012
Women will help single men grow up by refusing to play by their frat-boy standards.

"Wanna grab a burrito 2nite?"

The melody of the Atlanta symphony's instruments flowed through the auditorium. I didn't have high expectations for dating at 23, but a text containing the word burrito wasn't exactly what I had in mind (and with 1 hour notice). I liked him, but ...

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We're Just Friends. No, Really


Oct 24 2011
Our culture - and church's - obsession with romance has crowded out the chance for real friendship between men and women.

I was sitting at my friend Andrew's dining table in the mid afternoon. I had stopped by to pick up a book I needed for a writing project and decided to stay and work with him a while. It was quiet and peaceful and he was bent intently over his work. I slipped slowly into the ...

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Go Marry, Young Man!


Oct 13 2011
Ted Cunningham argues that marrying young has its benefits.

In his recent book, Young and in Love: Challenging the Unnecessary Delay of Marriage (Cook) pastor Ted Cunningham joins a conversation that hit the media spotlight a few years ago with Christianity Today's cover story "The Case for Early Marriage," which I responded ...

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Why I No Longer Pray for a Husband


Sep 26 2011
Lessons in longing, hunger, and trust.

Could fasting and prayer ever be a kind of sin? That was more or less the implication of one person's response to the news that I had joined a group who weekly fast and pray about marriage and singleness. (And yes, we're mostly female and mostly single.)

Perhaps it seemed like ...

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Why Singles Need Married Friends


Sep 13 2011
Instead of looking to celebrity couples to uphold our marital ideals, we should look to real couples in our midst.

I breathed a sigh of relief upon finding out the rumors of Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith's separation were false.

In Touch magazine first reported the couple's split, after 13 years of marriage. Rumors of infidelity quickly followed, and later it seems Pinkett Smith was spotted ...

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How to Avoid Marrying the Wrong Christian


Aug 24 2011
Why "he's a really great, godly guy" is not enough.

What do you do if you're engaged but have serious misgivings about your decision, red flags popping up left and right? Do you a) get married, since you've set a date, sent out the invitations, spent a boatload of money, are too embarrassed to back out, and believe that most ...

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The Female Friendship Crisis


Aug 2 2011
Friends are an indispensable part of growing in Christ. So why do many of us have so few?

Women drive me nuts.

Some years ago, following an act of civil disobedience, I spent several days in a makeshift jail with hundreds of women protesters. Before long, a couple of them approached me where I lay on a hard Army cot, trying to get comfortable enough to read the copy ...

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Being Loved through Breast Cancer


Jul 27 2011
God became 'the God who sees' when I faced a bilateral mastectomy, chemotherapy, and radiation at age 27.

I met Kristin during my first shift in an urban E.R. in Portland 3 years ago. I was working in Fast Track as a physician assistant, and she was the assigned nurse for the day. She was strong and outspoken and said within minutes of meeting me, "I'm probably going to offend you ...

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'Bridesmaids,' Marriage, and Real Happiness


Jul 22 2011
Where are all the popular stories about happy single women?

Movies have taught me a few valuable lessons.

There may be a train platform in between numbers 9 and 10 in London's King's Cross Station. If two men are fighting for your attention, and one is very pale and the other is Native American, well, watch out—they ...

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Why Men Should Read Jane Austen


Jun 20 2011
And, how we all should read works like 'Pride and Prejudice.'

Nobel-winning novelist V. S. Naipaul recently started a firestorm with his remarks about female writers in general and Jane Austen in particular. According to the Guardian:

In an interview at the Royal Geographic Society on Tuesday about his career, Naipaul, who has been described ...
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