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Cut the Waste out of Meetings
Why meetings fail and what can be done about it
by Kent R. Davies
We complain
about time-wasting meetings, but few of us seriously think of cutting them
out. We often attend them like lemmings headed for a high cliff.
It's not uncommon for executives to devote more than 70 percent of their
day to meetings. A survey done by Heldrick & Struggles, a consulting
firm in Chicago, found that 18 percent of CEOs spend more
than 30 hours a week in meetings. An additional 25 percent devote 20 to 29
hours weekly to meetings.
Many of those meetings are unproductive. According to a survey by the Wharton
Center for Applied Research in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, senior managers
reported that only 58 percent of their meetings were productive and that
22 percent of the rest could have been handled more efficiently by phone
or a memo.
Unproductive meetings drain people's enthusiasm, vigor, and effectiveness.
If you misuse people's time in meetings that accomplish little, people will
find boundless excuses to stop being involved in church affairs.
Meetings can be productive, however, if they're properly organized and managed
with skill. They can be a great tool for disseminating information and generating
feedback. And they can foster a feeling of camaraderie that can help launch
a new project, such as a capital-building campaign or new daycare ministry.
Why Meetings Fail
Meetings that seem to go nowhere and waste everyone's time often suffer from:
Too many people. Without strong leadership and an agenda, meetings
can wander. But too many participants can also extend a meeting's discussion
and turn it into a meandering time-waster.
A Well-Run Congregational Meeting
A
congregational meeting can be a volcanic free-for-all or an endless river
of talk. For a more orderly event, include these five ingredients:
1. Communication. One or two weeks prior to the meeting, send a letter
to every member of the congregation, telling the specifics of the meeting:
the date, the start and end time, the location, and the purpose. Include
a brief overview of the subject matter. Timing is critical here; send the
letter too soon, and people may forget about the meeting. Send it too late,
and people may have already made other plans.
2. Preparation. "Whoever is conducting a meeting should have a clear
list of all pertinent issues that need to be discussed in the meeting," says
Richard Turney, pastor of Rest Haven Baptist Church in Alcoa, Tennessee.
He also suggests that the issues be grounded in the Bible, not personal opinion.
"If the meeting leader does not stick to the Bible for foundation and reference,
he or she will likely lose control of the meeting at some point," he says.
3. Time management. Don't wait till everyone's seated before starting
the meeting, and don't review what you've already covered for latecomers.
Starting meetings on time shows everyone the importance of promptness. Ending
them on time forces leaders to be prepared and to keep the discussion on
track.
4. Orderly procedure. Robert's Rules of Order, used by church leaders
for years, is a step-by-step guide on how to run an effective, orderly, balanced
meeting. For example, it tells how to address the committee chair rather
than an individual during a discussion to avoid getting into personal disputes.
5. Model behavior. The leader of a meeting may only ask of people
what he or she is willing personally to do. As Proverbs 14:23 says: "All
hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty." A congregational
meeting will likely go more smoothly if led by a leader who walks his talk.
By Rhonda Campbell, a freelance writer living in Bensalem,
Pennsylvania |
For example, a pastor who called people together to discuss an
interdenominational effort to minister to the homeless was certain that the
topic would command everyone's attention. Within minutes, however, the 18
people at the meeting drifted into an aimless, 90-minute discussion about
who should speak at an upcoming conference. The pastor estimated the cost
of the discussion, in terms of everyone's time, came to more than $500.
An unclear purpose. The purpose of some meetings is so vague
that they probably shouldn't have been called in the first place. If you
want people's advice on setting up a new youth program, for example, perhaps
it would be more productive to call or e-mail each person rather than commit
everyone to a discussion that may or may not yield what you need.
Unnecessary invites. You may not have to attend every meeting
that colleagues schedule just because they ask you to come. Ask the convener
why you're being included to help you determine if you really need to be
there. If your input is needed, perhaps you could meet briefly with the convener
prior to the meeting and give him/her the necessary information. The same
holds true for your colleagues, whose presence may not be necessary at a
meeting.
Make the Most of Meetings
To make the most of everyone's time at a meeting, consider these suggestions:
1. Value everyone's time. Don't expect people to sit through a long
meeting if their expertise is needed on only one item of the agenda. Give
them the option to attend only that part of the meeting that applies to them.
2. Stay on track. If a meeting meanders into a discussion that's not
on the agenda, refocus the discussion by suggesting something like, "In the
15 minutes that remain, let's review where we are on the agenda and see if
we can quickly work through the rest of the items." If this doesn't work,
the only solution may be to end the meeting on time and schedule another
meeting. Prior to the next meeting, you could meet privately with individuals
who tend to push discussions off track to suggest how they can help you keep
a meeting on course.
3. Set an example. If people want you to come to a roundtable discussion
to help them develop solutions to a problem, say you'll be happy to come
after they've discussed the problem and come up with specific alternatives
for your consideration. Then discuss only those alternatives at the meeting.
4. Talk up a good one. If you attend a well-managed meeting, make
a point to commend the person who led the meeting, either during or immediately
after the meeting. Such recognition could encourage less-efficient colleagues
to follow the example.
5. Brush up on meeting skills. Conducting a proper meeting requires
management skills, such as conducting a business meeting according to Roger's
Rules of Order, or guiding discussion according to specific agenda items.
Management skills can be learned or strengthened at seminars offered by
organizations such as Skillpath Seminars (800-873-7545), Leadership Network
(800-765-5323), Careertrack (800-488-0914), INJOY (800-249-5598), or Blanchard
Training & Development (800-728-6000).
Call for further information on specific seminars.
Kent R. Davies is a freelance writer living in Anacortes,
Washington. He has taught business management at Central Washington
University-Lynnwood and the University of Puget Sound-Seattle.
15 Ways to Make a Conference Work for You
These simple
guidelines can help you get the most out of your next conference:
1. Decide whom you should contact at the conference and make arrangements
beforehand when and where to meet them.
2. Well before the conference, study its agenda to decide which workshops
and events will be most beneficial to you. If you have questions about what's
offered, call the conference presenters for clarification.
3. If two seminars that you're interested in are given at the same time,
offer to cover one while a colleague covers the other. Swap notes and handouts
with each other after the presentation.
4. Sit toward the back if you're unsure about a workshop. If it isn't what
you expected, you can slip out without disrupting anyone.
5. Scan conference materials quickly and eliminate what you know you won't
use. Ditto for all those business cards and brochures forced on you.
6. Choose a slow time during the convention to stroll through the exhibit
area. Vendors will have more time then to demonstrate their products and
answer your questions.
7. Wear comfortable but professional clothing and shoes. Leave heavy briefcases
and overcoats in your room. The more comfortable you are, the more professional
you can be with colleagues.
8. Gracefully bow out of lengthy, unproductive conversations as well as
protracted diatribes about controversial subjects. Plead another appointment
if necessary.
10. Be flexible. Allow enough time to develop relationships with new people
you meet. Perhaps you can help each other with a problem that you began sharing
in a workshop.
11. Write down the names of the key people you meet and briefly note what
you discussed. The notes could come in mighty handy a month later if you
need to contact one of those people.
12. Realize that what's off the agenda at a conference may be as important
as what's on it. Scott Heitschusen, associate pastor at Trinity Lutheran
Church in Orlando, Florida, says one of the best things about one of the
conferences he attends is worshiping at nearby churches. "It is a great time
for pastors to be able to worship in the pews and be ministered to through
the sermon and liturgy," Heitschusen says. "I leave refreshed and reminded
that through all the stresses and heartaches I need to hear God's love for
me."
13. Treat a conference as an extended break from work. As Rick Pittenger,
pastor at Vincent United Methodist Church in Minot, North Dakota, says, "Make
a commitment to be there for the entire event, or don't come. Leave your
cellular phone, pager, and paperwork home."
14. Make an effort to meet new people. "Some of my most interesting and inspiring
discussions take place in the hallways between seminars," Pittenger says.
15. Review your notes. What you take home from a conference may be just as
critical as what you absorbed at it. "For all the inspiration conferences
generate on filing illustrations, contacting key people, and writing specific
action plans, little is changed unless you sit down and process the information,"
says John Hampton, pulpit minister at First Christian Church in Canton, Ohio.
by Kent R. Davies |
Copyright © 1999 by the author or Christianity Today International/Your
Church Magazine. For reprint information call 630-260-6200 or e-mail
yceditor@yourchurch.net.
January/February 1999, Vol.45, No. 1, Page 72

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